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I am pregnant and cant afford to take care of another baby, how do I find a family to adopt my baby

by Lindsey Martin  |  11 years, 8 month(s) ago

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I am pregnant and cant afford to take care of another baby, how do I find a family to adopt my baby

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  1. Guest27872746

    pregnant and clueless...... i need help on making a decision..

    hi. my name is dorca. i am a single 26 yr old mom.and from pennsylvania.struggling to live day by day............ its not easy.... i have a one year old boy. he is the bride and joy of my life and my every mornings... but i just found out that i am pregnant..... and i am so devestated because i cant afford to bring another child into this world not being fully prepare mentally, physically, and econamacally.... it may sound harsh but i will like to meet or get to know other people that want kids but they cant have any at all... i am serious on my options.....if i cant provided for this unborn child i will like to provided way more for my one year old.... i can help does with hope as long as u can help me........... titito6573@gmail.com or 6104519752

  2. Guest24611016
    My husband an I are really wanting a baby. Loving family I am a stay at home mom an my husband is in the army. We have been together sense we were 17. My email is Elynne1234@aol.com
  3. Guest23132642

    hi i would be very happy to take on ur baby if u wish for ur baby to have lovely home and a loving enviroment also for ur child .

    i hope u see that i think we would be very good parents me and my husband i would hope we would get a chance to bring a special person up and you would be the angle that allows us to bring a child up i must say i do live in england and live near the seaside i have plenty of family round me and my partner and the child wouldnt have worry about anything

     

    my email if u would like to know anymore information davidcolin@hotmail.co.uk

    thank you for reading my message

  4. Guest22641025

    I WOULD LOVE TO ADOPT YOU BABY. CONTACT ME PLEASE AT peggypolak17@bigpond.com   THANKS

  5. Lisa Roberts
    Hello my name is Lisa my husband and I live in MN. We are unable to have kids of our own and would love to be parents. If you havnt found a family for your baby yet I would love to talk with you. We are working with adoption minnesota you can see our profile at www.adoption-minnesota.com under Lisa and Jerry. I hope your doing ok, I think about the mother that have given up there babies for adoption often. I think all of the women who have done this are precious,selfless and very brave. If you have already found a family for your baby or decided to parent I wish you the best. Please feel free to contact me anytime at lmroberts09@hotmail.com
  6. Angela
    My husband and I are ready to adopt, we have been certified and just waiting on the opportunity. You are choosing a wonderful thing! I have tons of references and can talk anytime! awaitinganangel@yahoo.com
  7. tk292
    Lindsey my husband and I are already certified, we have everythng ready even the nursery please give us a call 877-897-2229 or email tk292@hotmai.com. We are financially secure and have a warm loving home, I am a stay at home mom, and would love to care for your baby:) please call or email.
  8. Guest16973163
    My mom has been wanting to adopt for a very long time.She has tried adopting a foster child but they say its not good to bring a baby in a single parent home. My dad died in 9/11 and I think my mom has done a pretty good job raising me so far, I will be starting college next fall, I have been an honor student thought high school, anything I have ever needed or wanted I have gotten, I have a very loving family. I don't think there is anything wrong with being a single parent. I think as long as you can provide love, support, and a good stable home for a child, then that should be good enough. I think its totally wrong that if you have, well lets just say $50,000 in your pocket that guaranties you a baby, I mean we have money, but what makes a person with lost of money more capable with raising a child? IT DOSENT, BUT LIFES NOT FAIR! My mom has also tried Inverto and that didn't work. She has had many compilations with getting pregnant. Please if you haven't already made up your mind, it won't hurt just to call: (863)-514-8351, the reason why my mom is not the one writing this message, is because she has pretty much lost all hope, but deep down inside I still feel there is a baby out there for my mom. I would love to just be able to tell my mom that I found her a baby, we don't care about race,COLOR IS ONLY SKIN DEEP, ITS ALSO HOW YOU LOOK AT IT. or if its a girl or boy .I so much want to be a big sister, it hurts me so bad to see 14 girls in my high school walking around with big belles and talking about starting a family, when my mom at 40 years old can't get pregnant. PLEASE PLEASE LET THIS BE THE BUNDLE OF JOY FOR US. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND THAT THAT LITTLE BLESSING.
  9. Guest16924477
    email me. i would love a child. swimming0713@yahoo.com
  10. Guest16894949
    Hello! We are a loving family looking to adopt a baby. Please allow us to give your child the brightest future possible. We are open to any gender or race and we are willing to do all travel. Jcoope28@yahoo.com
  11. Guest16393929
    Hi! I posted this same reply to another very similar question posted by someone else on this site, however, it completely applies to you too so I decided to re-post here. Hope it helps... First, you have a beautiful heart to consider adoption; although an unplanned situation may have brought you here adoption can really win-win-win situation for all those involved (you, your baby and adoptive parents)! Please know that you will be okay and your baby will be okay too. I imagine it is not an easy situation but you will be okay if you follow YOUR heart! Basically on finding parents...there are two ways to go about placing a baby for adoption - both of which should cost you nothing financially. You may contact an agency where they will provide you with profiles of parents that have hired that Agency to help make a connection. Or you may look for the adoptive parents yourself where parents often post profiles on parent profile sites, place advertisments with a toll free number, create websites etc. with hopes of making a connection by you contacting them. In either case, these parents should be working with a qualified agency or an adoption attorney (in private adoption) - who will then help you through the rest of the process to ensure everyone's rights are protected. Please note that states have different laws surrounding adoption so you may have to inquire specific to the state you are in. I can tell you more about private adoption as that is the route my husband and I chose to take again hoping to further exand our adopt family. Basically, private adoption is really a neat option because you get to choose the parents yourself and decides what kind of relationship to have (or not :) with the adoptive parents. You can also decide on what kind of adoption plan you would like (ie: for example if you would like updates on the baby or not, would you like to meet the birth parents or not etc). So its very important you find someone you connect with and is willing to work with you on such things. Most parents are very sensitive to the fact that this is not an easy time and will respect how you wish to handle the adoption and your attorney will bring you through the steps legally. So it really comes down to what is best for you and your baby; as a result an adoption can actually be a very positive experience. Perhaps someone here can share on their experience with working with an Agency. But which ever way you go remember it it YOUR choice and you will know what is best for you and your baby...trust that! I was also told that when a birthmom finds the adoptive parents she wants to raise her baby, she knows it (so the answers will come to you when you need them!) I hope this helps a little bit; I figured I would just give you the background information as I realize this is all new and must be overwhelming! I truly wish nothing but the best for you and your baby no matter which direction you take or whom your choose to parent your child. In the event you do wish to speak with us or learn more about us our website is: www.JimAndDonnaAdopt.com or my email is JimAndDonnaAdopt@Yahoo.com Best of everything to you! Donna 1-888-486-0299 toll free
  12. Guest15388801
    Hi Lindsey! If you are still looking we would LOVE to adopt your baby! About us: married 9+ years, live in Southwest CT (less than an hour from New York City), both employed (but Lauren will be a stay at home mom), etc, etc, etc. The bottom line... (once again) we would LOVE to adopt your baby, and we feel that we can give him/her a great life!!! If you would like to contact us, please feel free to do so at robertlaurenadopt@gmail.com. We look forward to speaking with you.
  13. Guest15377954
    hi can you get in touch with me please jenniferdurkin1@aol.com
  14. Guest14154337
    Hello! My husband and I are seeking to adopt your baby. We are a Christian family of three that live in Ocean City,Maryland. We live in a very peaceful neighborhood with lots of kids. We enjoy spending time together,especially with family and friends. My Husband and I have been trying for over six years now to have a baby. I went through two IVF cycles but both failed. Please let us help you through this difficult time. You may email us at adoption_4us@yahoo.com or phone us at 443-783-2024. Sincerely, Laura and Matt
  15. Guest14114862
    Hello, My husband and I are very much interested in adopting your baby. A little about us: I am 34 years old and my husband is 37. Due to infertility, we do not have any children. We are a few months shy of being together 12 years. In fact our anniversary will be this coming Feb. 27, 2010. Very happily married and looking for our little bundle of joy to complete our family! We reside in sunny Southern California. Can you please tell me a little about yourself i.e. age/race, your situation and where you are presently residing? Also, how you would like to handle the adoption? On your reply please ask me as many questions as you would like. So that we may get to know one another. We can also, IM, text, or in the near future talk on the phone. Contact us at: lilangel_haven@yahoo.com Blessings... Aurora
  16. Guest14114862
    Hello, My husband and I are very much interested in adopting your baby. A little about us: I am 34 years old and my husband is 37. Due to infertility, we do not have any children. We are a few months shy of being together 12 years. In fact our anniversary will be this coming Feb. 27, 2010. Very happily married and looking for our little bundle of joy to complete our family! We reside in sunny Southern California. Can you please tell me a little about yourself i.e. age/race, your situation and where you are presently residing? Also, how you would like to handle the adoption? On your reply please ask me as many questions as you would like. So that we may get to know one another. We can also, IM, text, or in the near future talk on the phone. Blessings... Aurora
  17. Guest14071993
    OK, I AM A MOTHER OF A DAUGHTER, SHE'S GONE FROM HOME. I WOULD LOVE TO ADOPT YOUR CHILD. CONTACT ME BY EMAIL EHARR4879@AOL.COM WE WILL TALK
  18. Guest14019042
    My husband and I have no children. We have been together 8 years married for 4 of them. We have been trying for 4 years to get pregnant to na avail. Please consider us. alisonjeanette3@aol.com
  19. Guest13640944
    Hello... My fiance and I have been looking into adopting a baby and we would love to talk to you about your situation. Can you please contact me at verybadgirl4u77@yahoo.com and let me know if you would like to discuss this further or if you have found another family. Thank you for your time!! Brandi
  20. Guest13349549
    I WANT THE BABYYYYYYY
  21. Guest12967372
    Hi! My name is Kim. I am married to Brent. We have 4 kids, age 12, 10, 8 and 6. We cannot physically have anymore children, but we don't feel like we are done adding to our family. We are praying for a child. Maybe it is yours? The kids are anxious for a young brother or sister to dote on. We love kids. We have so much fun as a family. We have a lively home. I am a stay at home mom. My hubby is an electrician. We do a lot of outdoors things like fishing and hunting. We live in Alberta, Canada. Does your baby still need a great family? We are ready to love him or her. Please email me at kimdwebster@yahoo.ca
  22. Guest12672487
    My name is Nicole, My husband Everett and i have been married for 8 years, We have a six year old son named TrA. We live in wonderful, peaceful Idaho falls Id. A great place to raise a family. We own and operate a business here so we are very stable. Our son is our life. We are unable to conceive another child and have been looking for the right situation for 3 years. We would love to talk with you, If we are the right family for you, We would be willing to come to you, our accomidate you here... please contact me at 208-522-7767 or cleaningidaho@yahoo.com.. Hope to talk with you . Nicole Marie
  23. Guest12481874
    Hello Im a dental hygienist my husband of 13 yrs is a wildlife biologist. We have a 9 yr old and 6yr old girl. We live on a small farm. Big extented family. We are blessed and would love to share our lives with another child. If you feel that you are getting this because we were supose to meet than contact me please. Even if you just need someone to talk to. shawna Casperwish82@yahoo.com
  24. Guest12343258
    e-mail me at runnmar@live.com. i know a lady that is in maine and would be the best mom and dad for your little one! if u would like your child to have a wonderful life. contact me asap!
  25. Guest12094969
    If you are still in need of a loving home for your baby, please contact us. My husband and I have been happily married for 13 years and would love to provide a stable & loving home for your child. I would be an at home mom. We would provide a secure, loving, christian home for your baby. Thank you, Colleen & Brian cas49735@gmail.com
  26. goldendays
    r u still need help
  27. Jojo
    Hello I'm Jojo. My partner and I would love to adopt your baby. A few months ago I was pregnant with twins but sadly no loner am. The loss was devastating and after having time to grieve would love to adopt a baby. Going through an agency would be far to expensive however if you're looking for some sort of compensation we would be willing to discuss that with you. I work part time(so I'd have plenty of time for the little one and when I am working my mother would babysit)as for my partner he works full time but has evenings and weekends fee. We both love kids and are amazing with them. We would give the baby the world.Please choose us it would mean everything and more. email me at lilneosha@yahoo.com or call my cell phone at 8607546037 can you please give me some more info please How far a long are you and when are you due? Are there any health concerns? are you a high risk pregnancy? What is the gender and ethnicity(not that either matters just curious)? What state do you live in? Please contact me I would love to be a mommy!
  28. Jojo
    Hello I'm Jojo. I would love to adopt your baby. I know normally most would go through an agency. I don't have that type of money(an extra $40,000) however and after losing my twins a few months ago and having time to grieve I would love to be a mother. If you wanted some sort of compensation I'm sure we could work something out as I work part time(so I'd have plenty of time with the little one) and my partner works full time but has weekends and evenings free. We both would love the opportunity to be parents after our loss and would provide the very best for the baby. We both absolutely love kids and are great with them. My mother would watch the child when I'm working so there's no need for a babysitter when the child can be watched with family. I really would love to have this baby please email me at lilneosha@yahoo.com or call my cell 8607546037 can you please tell me about your child how far along are you and when are you due? what state do you live in what is the gender and ethnicity(not that gender or ethnicity matter of course just curious) are there any health concerns? Please get in touch with me I hope you're serious about this I would do anything to be a mother.
  29. Guest11306508
    We are a young couple from Texas that is interested. Please contact me if you are interested. helbigt@netzero.com
  30. Guest11211072
    We are a couple interested in discussing your situation further. Please contact us at sandyandpauladopt@gmail.com if you are interested.
  31. Guest11195304
    We're looking for a baby to adopt. When is your baby due? What are you having and what state do you live in? Are you looking for open or close adoption?
  32. Guest11096128
    Ask your family doctor, they can tell you where to go.
  33. Guest10965432
    Lindsey, my husband and I are an African American military couple. Please contact us if you might consider us at anewjemekia@hotmail.com.

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