What do I do if I feel I am losing love for my husband?

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1. Guest11873016
   

   I think we all go through times where we feel that we are losing the "intense love" that we once held for our partners. This is normal, so don't be discouraged. I do not know the complexities of your personal story but I hope I can help. First, Tell Him! And I don't mean in a crude or hurtful way. Be honest, concerned, and considerate when telling him that, "Baby, I feel that the flame (a symbol of our love) that once lit the house has started to die down to a small spark and needs to be rekindled. How do you feel about that? Do you agree? Let's work on this together, and find out if there is a root to the problem...i.e. financial problems, haven't had a date in a while, need a vacation, are you/I in love with someone else, and etc..... Then after you two figure out where to start, get to fixing it. If that's not enough then counseling is always a great option. Regardless of what you two choose.... choose together. And remember that marriage and that lovey dovey, "life is so perfect, now that I've met/married you" feeling is going to go away with all the stressors of life and the changes that each person goes through as time passes. But.... The both of you can still get high off of each other's love to one another through communication, dedication, and d**n, just trying new things together!I am proud that you started the process to rekindle the flame by reaching out and asking the world for their advice. Now go ask him. --My best wishes to you both!-------- Recently divorced (5 year marriage, He changed--- into a mean violent drug addict--We have one son and I gave him my every last breadth of energy, but then our son became negatively effected by his new obviously aggressive behavior---Thats when I knew, I had to divorce for my child's sake) Everyone's situation is different, but please try!

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