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Were you spanked on the bare behind?

Everyone's beef with this is it's humiliating to the child. For those of you who got it this way, is that how you felt? I was more concered with the fact I was getting spanked more than my parents seeing my butt. I know they did it to make it sting a bit more without having to beat us. How do you feel about this?
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Guest13274994
Guest13274994
1 day, 20 hour(s) ago

My mom always spanked me on the bare butt, it was a little embarrassing but I thought all kids were spanked that way. But in our house there wasn't much privacy anyway, so mom seeing my butt was not some big traumatic occurrence.


Guest12959128
Guest12959128
1 week, 2 day(s) ago

yeah i was spanked once with trousers and underpants down over my mums knee with the slipper trust me i was in a lot of pain when i was allowed up


Guest12844999
Guest12844999
1 week, 4 day(s) ago

i was and i do. Have 3 boys, 12, 9 and 6 and spank them on the bare butt with my belt. also have my fathers razor strop. and use that if they are really bad. we live in the same home i was brought up in with my brothers, and the woodshed is often a place i march my sons to. just spanked my 12 year old his morning before school, he lied about doing his book-report, took him to the shed, made him unbuckle his belt and take down his jeans, had him bend over the wooden horse and gave him 12 strokes with the strop. also will spank thm sending them to their room, i dont close the door, i let the brothers hear the sound of the belt applied across his siblings backside, that makes them fell good knowing its not his bare ass getting it, but also reminds him he will be next. Spankings are freequent, painful and my sons are growing up very well. all do great in school, church and in sports.


Guest12826571
Guest12826571
1 week, 5 day(s) ago

I think it is wrong to spank a child let alone butt naked in front of others. All it does is humiliate the child and make them angry and afraid. Being spanked as a child, I felt humiliated and angry. I didn't feel any remorse for my "crime".



Some parents are spankaholics. They spank over every little sin. There child doesn't get straight As, spill milk, or worse yet they fart in public! Oh how horrible!



So what happens? After the wicked brat farted, such is taken, bare butt exposed, and spanked until they are beet red in the butt and humiliation.



Everyone knows that spanking bare butts is the ONLY way to discipline a child.



Teaching children to say excuse me or to leave and go to the restroom when they have to tinky just doesn't work.



It teaches kids that hitting is the answer. When you are mad or offended, you hit.



It is also hypocrisy.



Daddy: Don't hit your brother!
Daddy takes wicked brat er child over knee and spanks bare butt.



If you can't see the hypocrisy in that, then that's sad.



Spanking doesn't teach the children the right thing to do.



So the horrible brat child is coloring in the walls.



What do we do?



Well we could show the child that we color on paper and have them clean up the mess.



or



We could yell at said evil wicked demon brat er child, spank said child's bare butt in front of others, and then make said evil child stand naked in the "Humiliation Corner"



Some parents do that to kids. But imagine if it was done to them? Imagine if one day at work you didn't do something your boss wanted. Imagine he/she taking you over the knee butt naked in front of all your coworkers. Imagine him beating you er I mean spanking you with a belt or hand or switch? Imagine how humiliated you would feel? Imagine having to stand naked in a corner while your boss lectured you. If that happened, it would be illegal.



But yet it is ok it do the same to a child?



If you want to get even the tiniest clue as to how your kids feel, then when others are over, get your own bare butt spanked in front of them and go through the same thing you do to your kids.



Oh and you can't stop it and you can't say anything or do anything or else it will be worse...just as it would be with yours.



Spanking is lazy.



My niece flat out lied to me one time. Now a spankaholic would have taken her bare butt spanked her until she was sobbing.



Instead I told her I knew she lied and gave her a chance to make things right. She admitted to what she did was wrong and instead of yelling at her and spanking her naked butt, I lovingly corrected her.



Guess what? She was truly sorry from her heart and I didnt have to spank her.



Goes to show you don't have to spank bare butts.



please check out www.nospank.com or .net it is rather insightful.



For Bare Butt Spankers, why just spank in front of family and friends? Why not spank the little devils or children in like walmart or public places?


Guest12826571
Guest12826571
1 week, 5 day(s) ago

I think it is wrong to spank a child let alone butt naked in front of others. All it does is humiliate the child and make them angry and afraid. Being spanked as a child, I felt humiliated and angry. I didn't feel any remorse for my "crime".



Some parents are spankaholics. They spank over every little sin. There child doesn't get straight As, spill milk, or worse yet they fart in public! Oh how horrible!



So what happens? After the wicked brat farted, such is taken, bare butt exposed, and spanked until they are beet red in the butt and humiliation.



Everyone knows that spanking bare butts is the ONLY way to discipline a child.



Teaching children to say excuse me or to leave and go to the restroom when they have to tinky just doesn't work.



It teaches kids that hitting is the answer. When you are mad or offended, you hit.



It is also hypocrisy.



Daddy: Don't hit your brother!
Daddy takes wicked brat er child over knee and spanks bare butt.



If you can't see the hypocrisy in that, then that's sad.



Spanking doesn't teach the children the right thing to do.



So the horrible brat child is coloring in the walls.



What do we do?



Well we could show the child that we color on paper and have them clean up the mess.



or



We could yell at said evil wicked demon brat er child, spank said child's bare butt in front of others, and then make said evil child stand naked in the "Humiliation Corner"



Some parents do that to kids. But imagine if it was done to them? Imagine if one day at work you didn't do something your boss wanted. Imagine he/she taking you over the knee butt naked in front of all your coworkers. Imagine him beating you er I mean spanking you with a belt or hand or switch? Imagine how humiliated you would feel? Imagine having to stand naked in a corner while your boss lectured you. If that happened, it would be illegal.



But yet it is ok it do the same to a child?



If you want to get even the tiniest clue as to how your kids feel, then when others are over, get your own bare butt spanked in front of them and go through the same thing you do to your kids.



Oh and you can't stop it and you can't say anything or do anything or else it will be worse...just as it would be with yours.



Spanking is lazy.



My niece flat out lied to me one time. Now a spankaholic would have taken her bare butt spanked her until she was sobbing.



Instead I told her I knew she lied and gave her a chance to make things right. She admitted to what she did was wrong and instead of yelling at her and spanking her naked butt, I lovingly corrected her.



Guess what? She was truly sorry from her heart and I didnt have to spank her.



Goes to show you don't have to spank bare butts.



please check out www.nospank.com or .net it is rather insightful.


Guest12779030
Guest12779030
1 week, 5 day(s) ago

My mom saw my butt all the time when I was growing up, as we lived in a small apartment where there was just no privacy at all. So I really couldn't have cared less about having to pull down my pants for a spanking. That just seemed normal. The pain was more what got my attention!


Guest12663105
Guest12663105
2 weeks, 1 day(s) ago

i am a VERY strict father and i have 4 boys. They are only spanked bare bottom and with the belt. I spank them for little things but only give them a good 10 swats. I want them to be fine young gentlemen. I spank them bare in public. In my house i have a spanking chair we pull out into our living room or they are placed over my knee. If the offense is bad you better believe i belt them till my arm gets tired. They are ages 16,13,9, and 7 and i spank every one bare still. They are embarrased which is part of the punishment. They are spanked about twice a week. I spank them for every wrong doing and my 16 yr old is starting to get spanked less. he is a fine gentlemen and has thanked me for adminiatering his spankings. I always spank till they cry and belt them for a minimum of 4 minutes on a bad offense. You better believe i tear them up. They have all been spanked in front of friends nude. I believe the embarrasment adds to the punishment. My boys love me and i love them even tho i spank them with the belt.


Guest12663105
Guest12663105
2 weeks, 1 day(s) ago

When i turned 4 years old, my spankings started bare bottom. My dad had a chart on the wall and it gave the implement and the offenses. We had a spanking room, spanking chair and all the spanking utensils. We were told to drop our pants when my dad announced the spanking. He always gave us a 10 minutes waening and by the time he came up we had to be in the spanking position. He then would count to 3 and start the spanking. We always counted on our spanks out loud and he made sure that our butt would be sore for a week. We were only spanked bare bottom and my dad would beat our butt for a minimum of 3 minutes straight. We then had to stand in the corner with our pants down and apologize to my dad. My dad would spank bare in public and always wore a belt or brought a wooden utensil to spank us with in public. Spanking was the only form of discipline so the littlest things we were spanked for. The most i was ever spanked for was 11 minutes when i told my dad to shutup. He is very strict and says i will
be spanked as an adult if i dont discipline my kids the same way.


Guest12015365
Guest12015365
1 month, 3 day(s) ago

Yes I got my bare fanny tanned with a paddle or belt. Mom or Dad always told
us to "drop em" meaning pants and underpants when one of us had a butt whipping coming to us.


Guest11877911
Guest11877911
1 month, 7 day(s) ago

Yes


Guest11807629
Guest11807629
1 month, 11 day(s) ago

Not just bare bottom, my parents made me get completely naked for whippings. Even after I had breasts and pubic hair. And I got whipped all over with the belt, even on my breasts and vagina. It hurt a lot and I think it was abuse. I only spank my kids on the butt.


Guest11806814
Guest11806814
1 month, 12 day(s) ago

Yes I do get spanked bare bottomed when my parents or my aunt who lives with us sees me misbehave or catch me in the act of being 'naughty", or when they receive a notice of corporal punishment from my school. When I misbehave I am ordered to strip out of my jeans and swim/ballet speedoes, place my hands and feet flat on the floor and bawl me out good and then spank my butt long and hard. I always get very vocal after about a dozen tough licks with a 33 inch drilled lexan paddle and swear I will never be naughty in any way again.


Guest11453649
Guest11453649
1 month, 29 day(s) ago

YES! my (adopted) Dad ALWAYS spanked me "bare bottom". I did feel shy though as i got older. My most embarrassing incident happened at the school gate, can't remember what i'de done but he put me over his lap and gave me 15 HARD smacks on my bare bottom infront of everyone!. All i remember is everyone watching him cover my poor bottom with bright red handprints, then feeling the pain only for him to stand me back on my feet and shout "pull your knickers up"!!, i did it quietly but i don't know what was more red-my face or my bottom!!....oh i was sooo embarrassed but it worked like a charm!.


Guest11401461
Guest11401461
2 months, 3 day(s) ago

Yes my parents always took my clothes off to spank me when I was little. I either got the belt on my buttfrom my dad or the flyswatter on my penis from my mom. I didn't care about being seen naked I was just scared of the pain!


Guest6803
Guest6803
earlier

Yes, but only by dad, never my mum for some reason. I had to of been really really naughty to get this punishment, and my Dad stopped smacking bare when I was about 8. I did find it a bit humiliating sometimes, but that was part of the punishment. If I hadn't of been bad then there wold be no need, and it always made me think twice before doing it again.



I guess it varies from child to child some find it humiliating some don't. But if they don't want to be smacked the shouldn't of misbehaved.


Guest9280
Guest9280
earlier

I was sometimes spanked bare bottom---and I know that the bare bottom ones made a much bigger impression--so that is the way I spank now that I am a Mom.



I do not recall the bare bottom aspect to be particularily embarrassing--when I got a little older I know I was embarrassed to be spanked at all.



I do think that spankings, bare bottom or not, should be in private. I do not see how a child briefly baring their rear to be disciplined by their Mom, who has bathed and diapered them, is unduly embarrassing.



The immediate objective of a spanking is to, within reason, give a good ouch--it is kinda counterproductive to spank over layers of clothing.


Guest2687
Guest2687
earlier

Only once in a great while, when I could talk my wife into doing it, usually she had to be half tanked.


Guest6658
Guest6658
earlier

Hell yeah! Spanked, belted and booted in the *. Sometimes bare-bottomed, but mostly over clothes. Humiliated? Well, no one likes to get hurt. But it sure gave me consequences for my wrong-actions as a kid. And I learned boundaries. Which kids these days don't seem to have.



And somehow I managed to turn into a productive member of society, with no addictions or criminal record to speak of, who has basic respect for her fellow human beings.



I'm not going to lecture anyone on whether it's right or wrong, but I think it should be a parent's own choice, as long as it's not excessive force and regular beatings. There must be a line.


Guest5781
Guest5781
earlier

Still do at 21.


Guest7127
Guest7127
earlier

Yeah, I agree. I was more concerned about the fact that I had been caught being naughty and was now going to get a "sore bottom" than about my parents seeing my butt.



It is not humiliating to a child to be spanked - that is just what children rights activists like to say because they have issues with it. And even if it was humiliating to a child - it would make them think twice before they did something stupid again


Guest7807
Guest7807
earlier

Yea.. I was to busy stopping the hand. I was mad good at it too. You gotta smack the kid in the face for his own dam good.


Guest3277
Guest3277
earlier

never got spanked, sorry


Guest1240
Guest1240
earlier

I was spanked virtually all the time on the bare bottom. I didn't find it humiliating only very painful. I found it more humiliating if anybody found out i'd been spanked especially as i got older than getting spanked on the bare bottom.


Guest9109
Guest9109
earlier

My mom always spanked us on the bare. And yes, I was more concerned with what I got than with what she might see. But by the time I was 10 or 11 having to bare my bottom got more than a bit embarrassing. So I'm not quite sure how to deal with this when I have to spank my own daughters.


Guest793
Guest793
earlier

Mother spanking son or daughter yes, father spanking daughter no way, I didn't like that my dad spanked me but he never spanked me without clothing, so I dunno.



I try to limit the spankings, but believe when needed, do what you feel is best when raising your child. Some kids are well with no spankings, some kids are well with spankings, some kids are wild with no spankings some kids are wild with spankings, Love your kids and discipline them with love, spend time with them, keep them involved with the family, let them know they are important part of the family and teach them well.



I have to agree with others I never punish my kids in public, Never to have them teased because of me. I would feel aweful for their peers to tease them for years because of impulse. I do talk to them sternly and let them know if not your outta here.



My dad one day was going to smack me in front of my friends, I caught his hands and said no, not in front of my friends, atleast wait until we get inside (whispering of course if not I'd probably see a black out, and white clouds). He then tore my ar se up in the house. Why, because I was walking with a boy!


Guest6104
Guest6104
earlier

yes a lot of times.


Guest516
Guest516
earlier

You know what's humiliating? Your child getting pregnant at 12 because she's sneaking out of the house because she doesn't fear consequences...or having your child get someone else pregnant.



Whip it. Into shape. -Devo



lol


Guest7584
Guest7584
earlier

Nope.


Guest852
Guest852
earlier

I was spanked on the behind but not bare my dad would always use a brush or shoe. i didn't feel humiliated but I didn't like the sore butt after wards so it kept me from doing it again.


Guest3768
Guest3768
earlier

When I was about six or seven, I stole some cookies from the store & got caught. When my mom asked me about it (in front of my siblings) I lied, My siblings had to pick my switch & I had to strip down to nothing,she switched me until my legs (only) bled, She went to her room & cried, I got dressed & went to apoligize for lying to her, I was more embarrassed that she asked me in front of my siblings, I NEVER LIED TO MY MOTHER AGAIN.


Guest1018
Guest1018
earlier

Yes...I was more concerned about getting spanked than my mom seeing my bare bottom. I don't think it bothers the kid as long as the kid isn't in public or over like 7/8-ish.


Guest7120
Guest7120
earlier

Yes I was spanked on the bare behind, and spank our children on the bare behind. I agree with your take on it - Your more concerned about the sore rear-end your about to have then your parents seeing your behind. Besides, every human has a bottom, in my opinion as long as your not stripping your children naked (just uncovering what your spanking) + your doing so ONLY in privet, I don't think that is humiliating.


Guest3039
Guest3039
earlier

I think you've got it about figured out Nicole.



From a very recent reminder, I do think the hairbrush on the bare behind is MOST uncomfortable for a while. Do I feel humiliated? No. Just "stupid". But I'm back on Y!A, at least for short periods of time And yeah, can stype standing up. I've never been BEATEN; not harmed nor injured. Though the hairbrush really does smart on my behind.



How do I feel about that? I sure don't like it, but as for it being on the bare ...yeah, it does hurt some more but hopefully it is over sooner. Sometimes I do almost wish the "other guy" got it too (or, preferably, instead of me!!}


Guest3353
Guest3353
earlier

I think it's the reason I'm not usually a fan of physical contact with my mum.



Butts aren't that big of a deal.


Guest5753
Guest5753
earlier

i got spanked on a fairly regular basis until i was at least 10. and when bare hands werent enough, they used the wood cutting board. honestly, i didnt care that i had to drop my pants. it was the getting beaten part that sucked. its not humiliating so much as frustrating and rage-inspiring.


Guest3869
Guest3869
earlier

I hated it I got it when I left my house without permission to go to my friends house,but my intentions were good I wasn't gonna run away.I went to see a friend that was like 6 blocks away and I was like 5 and the police thought there was a killer hiding in the area and my mom was scared so that made her extra mad and then when I finally came home my mom took my pants off in front of my cousins and grandma and spanked me.It was embarrassing because my cousins laughed.


Guest4488
Guest4488
earlier

Yes:( but only when I was like 2


Guest2340
Guest2340
earlier

up to the ago of say 15, yes it was the soreness that bothered me. after this age i have to admit i felt very embarrassed and humiliated when they yanked my knickers down, altho i soon forgot about this after say the 5th slap to my bum.



Emily


Guest7666
Guest7666
earlier

I was spanked and my mom says when she did have to, I would be good for weeks.



I don't understand how it is humiliating if the parents aren't doing it in front of other people.


Guest5495
Guest5495
earlier

Yes I was spanked bare bottomed once as a child for sassing my mom. I believe I was 5 years old. And yes I deserved it and while it may have been embarrassing at the time, I know that my behavior must have been equally or more embarrassing. My parents never spanked me in public because they believed that punishments like that need to be carried out in private to prevent embarrassment. My parents are some of the best parents in the world and I love them very much.


Guest3581
Guest3581
earlier

No, never, but I've had friends who have and I think it's only humiliating if more people than a parent are watching. And it's just a rear end, really.


Guest4677
Guest4677
earlier

For the record I am the OTHER GUY NO SPAM 2 is talking about ..



But i deserve it for other reasons ..



I was only spanked with the hand bare bottom once that i could remember



i was maybe 5 years old i guess ..



i think its the humilliation moral implications ect .



I think it depends on several factors ..


Guest8904
Guest8904
earlier

i was definitely spanked like everyday of my childhood sometimes even with the belt but i dont look back at it hate my parents n think wow that was embarassing i knew i had it coming but hell i didnt care. i dont remember it at all anymore so i could care less. i think it was probably for the best and ill spank my kids when i have them!


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