OKAY.. I NEED SOME ADViCE.. IM A 16 YR OLD GIRL WHO'S RECENTLY TOLD HER OVER-BEARING, OVER-PROTECTiVE, KNOW-IT-ALL , YET VERY SENSiTiVE MOTHER IM SEXUALLY ACTIVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND OF TWO YEARS . FIRST OFF, I BELIEVE SHE THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO BE A PERFECT CHILD&PUT ME ON A PEDALSTOOL. I AM IN NO WAY SAYING IM PERFECT, BUT IM A VERY GOOD GIRL. IM INTELLIGENT, AMBITIOUS, KIND AND LOVING. I HAVE THE RESPECT OF ADULTS&TEENAGERS ALIKE. ANYWAY, SHE STAYED IN BED FOR TWO DAYS& STARTED USING DIFFERENT PHRASES TO THREATEN &DEGRADE ME SEVERLY.. SUCH AS"U BETTER BE GLAD I ALREADY PAID FOR UR DANCE STUFF OR U WUDNT B ON IT" & "IM NOT DOING ANYTHING EXTRA FOR YOU" & " YOUR DUMB FOR HAVING s*x". SHE SAYS I "BROKE HER HEART" UNFORTUNATLY, I HAVE NO REMORSE OR SYMPATHY FOR HER. SHES NEVER MADE IT EASY FOR ME TO TALK TO HER ABOUT SIMPLE LIFE SITUATIONS... IM AFRAID THAT BY THE TIME I GRADUATE IM GOING TO HATE HER AS A PARENT! SHE WONT LET ME LIVE MY LIFE, SHES TRY TO LIVE HERS THROUGH ME WHICH ISNT RIGHT! I KNOW s*x BEFORE MARRIAGE IS WRONG BUT IM A TEENAGER! WE MAKE MISTAKES! WERE NOWHERE NEAR PERFECT AND SHE SHOULD STOP RIDING ME! SHE SUFFERED FROM A PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE MOTHER&PROMISED HERSELF SHE WULDNT TREAT ME THAT WAY. HOWEVER, SHE DOESNT REALIZE SHES DOING THE SAME TO ME EMOTIONALLY! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO...
Tags: sexuality, teenage