Im also thirteen, dating a 17 year old. I love him to death. We've been together almost 8 months and we're having sex. I dont know if im pregnannt.. I might be /: My mom will kill me. But please support your daughter and let her know that you'll be by her side no matter what. Because if she IS pregnant, she'll need you. <3 God blesss.

Ok Im 13 and Im Dating An 18 Year Old My parents Don't Know About Us,But Maybe They Do Really Love Each Other,And Im 13 And Im A Virgin The Last Guy I Dated My Mom Thought I Was Having Sex With Him And I Wasn't So Sit Her Down And Say Something Like "I Know You Don't Like Talking About It And You Won't Get In Trouble But Are You Having Sex And If You Are It's All Right But I Want To Get You Checked To See If Your Pregnant" But if She Says No Then Your Doing Your Job Right And Then She Feels Much Safer Talking To You If You Dont Over React,But My Mom Got Pregnant At 16 And She Shouldn't Throw Away Her Life Cause If She Is Pregnant She's Going To Miss Out On A Lot Of Stuff.

I have a 13 yr old and find this post one of the MOST disgusting I have ever read. NO 13 year old should be dating and certainly not having sex. The 17 yr old should be locked up, you are DISGUSTING.. Mom, get some parenting skills, you sound very uneducated and LOW income.

If that was my 13 y.o. daughter, I'd have the b@*&$d in jail. He has no business going after a child! Our kids don't date until they're 16, and then only those of whom we approve. That's no guarantee against problems, but I just remind her of Rodney Atkins' song - I'll be here all night still cleaning this gun!

Talk to her about it. That's key. Get her to take a pregnancy test as soon as possible (be sure to tell her it will be OK no matter what the outcome, so you don't have to force her to take it.), and get her to a doctor to get her on the pill. They're going to have sex behind your back anyway so you might as well be sure they're safe about it.

the way i see it is yes.
its not right that they are having sex.
but if its just them dating, and its just that, then i dont see antyhing wrong in it.
if he makes her happy, shouldn't you be happy for her?
yes, if they are having sex thats totaly wrong and out of the question,
but if you stop her from seeing him, she will go behind your back.
just talk to her about it, if she loves him she loves him, you cant do much about that.

This is, on the surface, ALL WRONG. Some boys/men mature mentally at a slow(er) rate than females. However at 17 or 18, most males are fully mature sexually. In fact many believe they are at the highest peak sexually they will ever attain. Couple that with a girl just entering puberty and you can evoke completely improper, dangerous and even deadly outcomes (STD's). I'm not saying that a 13 year old girl or boy can't feel romantic love or even sexual attraction. But the age/maturity difference between 17/18 and 13 is astronomical ! If your daughter is spending weekends with her boyfriend, they ARE having sex. Until you figure out exactly what to do, get her on "the pill" and get some condoms into the picture. Open conversation with the boyfriend's parents to get their take on things. Try to establish rules that demand supervision when they are together, and don't assume your daughter is telling the whole truth when you ask her about sex. Set reasonable curfews based on HER age. Set rules about phone time and cut it off at 10:00pm----even if you need to take all the phones into your bedroom and lock the door. Place school expectations and insist they be met to enjoy the privilege of supervised dates. Talk frankly about becoming an unwed teenage mother, not finishing school, and ruining the teen years with the responsibility of a baby and a much older "baby daddy". Get your pastor involved. Get her school counselor involved. Try to find a therapist who specializes in teen issues. Don't judge----advise. All your efforts may or may not be successful, but you try your best, pray, and let God help you. You're never alone.

You should put your foot down. If you don't feel comfortable with what she's doing, change it! You're the mother and you have every right to protect her.

one of my best friends started dating this boy who is 18 and she was only 13. They werent even dating for a long time but ended up having sex..i think it is wrong for someone 17 or 18 to date a 13 year old. it disgusts me. They are men and the girl is barely a teenager. I think its WRONG

Just let them date if they love each over.

well im 13 and im going with an 17 year old guy and we are in love we've known each other for like ever and we are in love. he tells me im his world all the time and that he loves me ever time we text or talk and I beleive him. we've never had sex but we talk about it and the consequenses of us having sex with each other. i don't see what the issue between the age is yes it is only 3 1/2 or 4 years not 5 or 6 so i think its ok for her {trust her} plus if she is pregnet it's not fully her fault yes i think her dating him is a good idea but she's 13 why are you letting her go over a 17 year old guys house at night that's stupid if you thought she was having sex why didn't you just stop her from going over there or ask her as soon as the thought came to your head

well im 13 and im going with an 17 year old guy and we are in love we've known each other for like ever and we are in love. he tells me im his world all the time and that he loves me ever time we text or talk and I beleive him. we've never had sex but we talk about it and the consequenses of us having sex witheach other we've dated before. i don't see what the issue between the age is yes it is only 3 years not 4,5 or 6

Talk to her about it and do what you think is best for her. Remind her that he might cheat on her when she or he are older, they wont stay forever. Ask her to hangout at your place.

call the damm cops and set him up

call the damm cops and set him up

Wow there is a lot of ignorance in these "answers". First of all, if you're 13, you are in no way qualified to give advice in this matter. On what life experience are you drawing for this "advice"? That's right, none.

So he's almost 5 years older... No big deal if she's 30 and he's 35. However at this point, he could be arrested for doing the things they're going to want to do.

Here's some rules of thumb:

No "dating" until 7th grade.
"dating" at this point consists of spending supervised time together outside of school, nothing more, and only within the same grade.

Once in high school, dating allowed within 1 year of grade.

And for you little misfits saying "mom has no right to say anything because she had me at 15", you're simply too ignorant to describe. Do you think it was easy for your mother to be a mother at 15? She's trying to save you the hard times and emotional damage that comes along with becoming a parent at that age. At 15, you're not capable of properly caring for yourself, let alone a child.

Whatever..Let her Be,I mean its over now.Im 13 and thats a pretty name...maybe they wont let it happen again..

Thank you guys,and yes she was Pregnant...I was very upset with her at first,but now I know that I will keep restraints on her and this boy.They're still together,and the baby is due in the end of March.Her name is going to Be Alyssa.

well im 13 year old girl and im dating a 18 year old and we have sex all the time we both love each other

all these 13 year old answering this are insane.
im 16 going to be 17 in a just a few days.
and i would NEVER think of dating a 13 year old.
they could say o its just 3 years.
but we are talking about someone who is maybe 8th grade, or a freshman.
to someone who is going to be about to graduate.
dating someone who is that much older i unacceptable.
and im sorry but that guy must be a pervert.
just dating her is wrong. but having sex!
thats outrageous.
you definitely need to distance those two.

well i just happen to be 13 as well i am dating a 17 year old he just turned 17 i haven't told my parents they don't understand anything i don't even live with them i live with my grandparents and they would probably kill me but i have told my sister because she understands and gives me advice she is almost 30 my mom had her at 15 so my mom can't really say anything to me either but anyways i think that you should let your daughter date this dude if they both are in love and are happy why would u want to ruin that i wish i had a mom like u that i could talk to and all these other people talking bad about ignore them because u are doing the right thing just talk to them both about how u feel my sister says that boys act younger then they really are so remember that.. hope this helped (:

when hes not around sit her down in the kitchen or lounge and tell her to tell you everything about wats happining she could just have a bug but that might mean there sighns of pregancy. if she says she is tryin just say i think i wont u to end it with him. take it slow and easy.

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Are you kidding me?!?! I cant believe that you are even on here asking this question. As a parent, you should know better than to even let your 13 year old date at all. Do you want your daughter to be another statistic? That is the real question. Smarten up! She WILL end up pregnant. Grow a backbone and tell your daughter that she is not allowed to date. 13?? Thats insane

let her be im thirteen and im datin a guy that just turned 17 it doesnt matter 3yrs diffrent isnt much all the ppl who said thats to young is got problems why the heck would u get the cops involved thats retarded.

HE WILL BE FUCKING HER IN THE ASS, SO THERE'S NO NEED TO WORRY ABOUT PREGNANCY.. YOU'RE SAFE :)

Im thirteen and I have a boyfriend thats 12. Almost thirteen in like two months. My mom was perfectly fine with that too, She just told me the concequences if i became prego. 1) She would literally abandon me 2) Put the child in adoption 3) And never talk to me again. I know thats kind of harsh but since I love my mother I respect her that she wants the best for me. And i love her to much for her to abandon me. Tell your daughter the same things my mom told me, it will work.

Make her stop messing with this man only because he will hurt her. He will go to college and cheat on her. Take her out of the pain now.

okay so im 13, dating an 18 year old. i have not told my parents at all. i understand the case that your worried but you honestly shouldnt be, i would be happy she told you. i never ever lie. except about this. i know the last thingyou want to see is your daughter being hurt, if her and this boy dont work out its a lesson learned. warn her so atleast a red flags up. and you were a kid once i bet you snuck around, things have changed since your time though. if i were in your shoes i would have a thought in the back of my mind, but dont interfere. it will cause her to rebel and want to do it more.

I'm 13 years old, and I've never even think about having relationship. I think I'm still a child. I even tell my classmates that I'm still a baby. Maybe having relationship, and worse to a person much older than me, is a major no no. I thinks she needs to study first before such things.

P.S.

My crush is even an anime character. :P

Talk to her about it. Tell her they should start hanging out at your house, so you can at least know whats going on a little.

im 13 and i was talking to this 16 year old guy for about a week but ive known him litterally all my life. i always liked him when we were younger but he didnt like me. and now i found out hes in love with me and i told him that i was in love with him. he is the best person ever and he wasnt forcing me to do anything. he would care about me and didnt care if i did anything or not as long as i loved him. but then i guess his ex who is like almost 2o read his messages online and showed his mom. then like my mom found out and they all freaked out and now im not aloud to talk to him. its been about 2 weeks and im still really mad and upset. he was everything to me. if u really care about ur daughter i would let her see this guy cuz if u break them up she will be heart broken just like i am. if u trust her then u dont have to worry. i told me mom everything that happened and that we never did anything and she believed me. just talk to her and see whats going on but i dont think there is any reason to break them up.

im 13 and i was talking to this 16 year old guy for about a week but ive known him litterally all my life. i always liked him when we were younger but he didnt like me. and now i found out hes in love with me and i told him that i was in love with him. he is the best person ever and he wasnt forcing me to do anything. he would care about me and didnt care if i did anything or not as long as i loved him. but then i guess his ex who is like almost 2o read his messages online and showed his mom. then like my mom found out and they all freaked out and now im not aloud to talk to him. its been about 2 weeks and im still really mad and upset. he was everything to me. if u really care about ur daughter i would let her see this guy cuz if u break them up she will be heart broken just like i am. if u trust her then u dont have to worry. i told me mom everything that happened and that we never did anything and she believed me. just talk to her and see whats going on but i dont think there is any reason to break them up.

Im a 13 year old girl and im dating a 16 year old. To me that isnt wrong. H holds me when i cry he protects me and every day of every hour he reminds me that he loves me. I sleep at his house over the weekend sometimes and i dont sleep in his bed.I havent lost my virginity and we do amazing things together we take walks and go tot he movies eat out and everything. His family excepts me and treats me like a daughter. On the other hand someones been spreading things that ive been "sleeping" with him in bed and now my father hates him. So does my sister and my grandparents but i wont let them stop my love for him. He loves me so much and weve been dating for about 10 months now. So no i dont think its wrong but i do agree that lying and having sex is disrespectful at that age. You should sit them both down and talk to them both about it. And if she is pregnant give her support! get a morning after pill or something before her lifes goes to far into adult hood to quickly! I rest my case

i like some of you am 13 and i am with a 19 year old i like him alot but as youngsters i really dont think none of us young girls have the emotionally and physical capability to deal with the stress... i lost my virginity about 1month ago and i thank the lord i had my period... but this 19 he left me cause i it was a bet with his friends to see if he could get in my pants and he did i am still physically and emotionally stresses i was not ready but i did it and he could except it and he left so just be careful dont make a mistake

im in the same sitch i love an 18 year old but im 14 and i just dont know what to do i dont want him going to jail i love him to much plus hes the nicest and non rude guy EVER :'(

Im 13 dating a 17 year old and the cops found out, and now he is in jail and getting charged, how long do you think he will be in jail for ?!

Raising a child is hard to do. Unfortunately a book on how to how to live life correctly is not given to us at birth. Because of this we live the best way we know how. All I can say is that we the people have each been given out own identity. Your child has every right to make her own decisions. As a mother you have to understand that. Sit with her and say i will ask you what you want. Then give it to her. Only give her what she wants if she is willing to take full responsibility for her life. Let her know that being young its hard to make right choices. Its also a duty. If she decides to let you make her choice then she will thank you for your help in the end for keeping her safe and her best interest at heart.

Below is the definitions for responsibility

Something for which one is responsible; a duty, obligation, or burden.

Give her some prime examples of adults that have found themselves wishing they would have taken the advice from someone else.
If she says she is not like them let her know that in 1 inch of life she could be.

From there you have to let her decide.

She will thank you now. She will thank you later for giving her a chance to be adult.

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my daughter is 13 and in love with a 19 year old. he is a family friend. they have never been alone. they have never kissed r even held hands. they r in love with eachother cuz of what they have in commom. sports, hunting, there personality. i know what boys her age say to her about sex, how they want her and it is rather sick. i trust her with this boy and he respects her for her. my daughter is very pretty. him and i talk all the time about his feeling and what is going on with them. i also have a very close relationship with my daughter and we to talk all the time about the two of them. this has been going on for about 6 months. i feel that y should age matter when i trust them both and there love for eachother is real!!!

my daughter is 13 and in love with a 19 year old. he is a family friend. they have never been alone. i know what boys her age say to her about sex and it is rather sick. i trust her with this boy and he respects her for her.

Please could someone answer this Question:
I AM a 16 year old GIRL
I like a 13 turning 14 year old boy.
I DON'T want ANY sexual relations.
However I do want to DATE him.
Is it really such a problem? :/

Put a stop to it right now. If they love each other, he will wait for her to turn 18.

I am 12 almost 13 so I can sorta understand where she would come from. As far as her dating a 17 year old I think its fine. If he is a nice boy then I wouldnt worry. Girls mature much faster so guys our own age seem 2 to 3 years younger so its natural that she wuld want to date an older guy. I dont think you should tell her she cant date him because you might ruin your relationship with your daughter and possibly break her heart. I do think you should talk to her about sex and make sure she knows that you would rather her wait until she is out of school and married. If she is pregnant then you need to stay calm. Make sure she knows that you are there to help her through it all. Again don't seperate her and her boyfriend unless that is truly something she wants. I honestly hope that everything is allright and you 2 can have a relationship like me and my mom have :D

Okay, so, I'm 13 and I'm dating a 16 year old. I havn't told my parents because I know they would go crazy, since i'm only 13. Even though my sister is 16 and dating a 20 year old they let her, but theres a difference because she's 16 and more mature and blah blah blah. Well since you're hearing this from a 13 year old, she might be having cravings for sex, ect. Its good that you worry just make sure you dont over worry, because they might really get them upset. -I'm sorry, I don't know your daughter but i'm usung me as examples-. But since the sex cavings, just make sure that he knows that its her hormones, and if she says shes ready for sex, she probably isn't emotionally . I think you should talk to him first, and make sure that he knows that she isnt ready fer sex no matter what she is. And if he really loves her he would understand and wouldn't even think about having sex with her because he knows shes too young and she just plain isn't ready. Sometimes I feel like I want sex, but I know I dont want it at the same time. So I really think you should talk to him about it and make sure everything is clear with him and ask him honestly if they have done anything and if he says yes, DO NOT go over board and start spazzing and yelling at him and everything, just be chill. Then ask her if they have done anything, and tell her as since shes your daughter will she tell you the trust. If she says yes too just be chill. Then talk to both of them together and tell them you wish they would of told you or something, just DO NOT spazz, it will ruining everything especially your relationship with your daughter because she will think that she cant tell you anything without you getting mad, ect.
And IF shes prego, just be there for her no mater what and dont tell her what a regret she made and how stupid she was for doing what she did and everything because that could lead her to running away with her Boy Friend. Just be there fer her during everything so she knows what a great parent fer her and how you will always be there fer her. It would really show her shes not alone. Another good thing to think of, is try being in her situation and thinking how you would want your mom to react if you were doing the things she was. But most of all, talk to both of them together!
I hope this helped:]

THAT IS SOOO DANGEROOUS WHAT HAPPENS IF THEY HAVE SEX THEY WOULD BE IN BIG TROUBLE SHE COULD BE DOIN DRUGS OR SOMETHING ELSE

try to talk to your daughter....i was 13 when i had a boyfriend...
but we didn't do anything because my mom keeps on giving me advice and we share stories with each other...be open to her so that she would do the same thing...

umm ya there haveing sex all night

Grow up, lady! I'm a mother of a 12 year old, and I would never allow that to go on. You're irresponsible to allow this, and you're going to end up raising a grandchild.

who cares as long as they love each trust me if u take the love of her life away she would hate u forever . but u can tell she can date that guy but not have sex with him like check her every day if she has had sex .

hello ima l3 yrs at aged im so courius.so what are yoo doing having to ask ppl thats just bad parenting.yoo tell her if she wants her bf to go to jail then keep dating him but if she doesnt break up with him before she has sex and dont let her say yes if she realy cares aabout him then she will go out with some one diff.

hello ima l3 yrs at aged im so courius.so what are yoo doing having to ask ppl thats just bad parenting.yoo tell her if she wants her bf to go to jail then keep dating him but if she doesnt break up with him before she has sex and dont let her say yes if she realy cares aabout him then she will go out with some one diff.

hello ima l3 yrs at aged im so courius.so what are yoo doing having to ask ppl betch thats just bad parenting.yoo tell her if she wants her bf to go to jail then keep dating him but if she doesnt break up with him before she has sex and dont let her say yes if she realy cares aabout him then she will go out with some one diff.

Thats one good thing about me being 28, I don't smoke , drink or do drugs. And i don't want my 17 year old girlfriend to get into that sort of thing.She says she loves me and i say i love her. So basically i guess there is no bounderies in love unless of course ... your dealing with 13 and 14 years old with a much older guy that smokes pot like someone mentioned. thats just wrong. I would try my best to put a stop to it!

Thats one good thing about me being 28, I don't smoke , drink or do drugs. And i don't want my 17 year old girlfriend to get into that sort of thing.She says she loves me and i say i love her. So basically i guess there is no bounderies in love unless of course ... your dealing with 13 and 14 years old with a much older guy that smokes pot like someone mentioned. thats just wrong. I would try my best to put a stop to it!

Listen, I'm a thirteen year old guy, my friend, also thirteen, was the most innocent, funniset person I'd ever known. She hated to even think of sex and she'd always be making wise cracks and such. But she has a huge flaw, claiming to "love" every guy she goes out with, which she most likely actually doesn't, but believes she does. We went out for about a week, barely ever said two words to each other, and everything was awkward, but she calime that she loved me. I knew it wasn't true, but we're still good friends, close. But then she met Luke.... A nineteen year old stoner who started to date her. Now, they've had sex and she's changed.... Greatly. She's even started smoking becuase of this pedophile, and my advice is... Talk to her immediatel. Don't get furiously enraged, but don't hold in your emotions. Sit her down and talk to her, give out your points, then let her give out her ones....

I am 28 and my girlfriend is 17. She will be 18 in 2 months. But the ages 13 and 17 i just feel thats a little bit different.

im 13 dating a 17 year old boy about to turn 18..i havnt told my mom but if i do i think she would understand if she loves him let them be :]..

I'm 13 and my limit is 14 set by me. My parents would kill me if i was dating a 17 year old boy and expecialy having sex(way to young). I would stop it asap before she really messes up her life. O.k first talk to her about how you think that it's to young to be having sex and having a 17 year old boyfrind for that matter, and if she gets mad she gets mad. The reason i'm telling you this is beacuse my cousin had a baby at 14 and she got taken away from her parents and she almost died having the baby, and the doctor tould her the reason she almost died was because she was to YOUNG.

im 17 my girl is 13 i know her mom very well and she seems like a nice person but everyone tells me that her family are two face what should i do?

i am 13 and i i started dating a 17 year old about to be 18 about 4 months ago! i love him so much and we have sex. but my parents found out we devistated. but my mom had me at 16 and beforee my dad she dated someone much older than her too. so they decided to let me date him and they like him now. and i love him and they see that and he loves me tooo. so if they really love each other let them date just tlalk to her about it. like my mom did and work it out with er.

your truley,
destiny!

I'm sorry but if you love her you need to stop it right away. 13 is way to young to be dating especially a 17 year old. I agree with the others that say call the cops. If she gets upset with you will so be it. Better her be mad at you than end up in a mess. She has her whole life ahead of her and needs to look past this 17 year old. What is wrong with him anyway for messing with a 13 year old anyway.

I'm sorry but if you love her you need to stop it right away. 13 is way to young to be dating especially a 17 year old. I agree with the others that say call the cops. If she gets upset with you will so be it. Better her be mad at you than end up in a mess. She has her whole life ahead of her and needs to look past this 17 year old. What is wrong with him anyway for messing with a 13 year old anyway.

alright dont listen to these people.if they really love eachother then let them be.if shes happy then its all worth it.she loves him and if you take that away from her;;if you take the love of her life away from her then im sure she woudnt forgive you.dont try to break them up.shes happy so you need to be too.

you need to teach your daughter between
right & wrong- your not setting a very good
example by knowing she is dating a guy much
older than her and not saying a word.

before its too late, id talk to her.

call the cops

you not a good mom i see let her be just like you then you can rais her kid haha

ok well first a little backround of myself... I am only 26 and i have a 13 yr old daughter... bet you can do the math... I was 13 when my Girlfriend at the time got preg. so I kind of have a little insight on this subject. and Being a father of a 13 yo I am a little worried about her and her "Boyfriends". She pretty much dates in her age range which i appreciate. But the one thing that helps us alot is the fact that i am not that much older then her. I remember what she is going threw and she comes to me for advice. We have a very Close and Extremely Strong Relationship she knows that she can talk to me about "anything" and we do talk about everything. example: One day she asked me if I ever regretted Getting her mom Knocked up. I tell you what. that is the hardest question a kid can answer. and because she expects me to be completely honest with her. I told her the truth that when i was her age i was scared and i did regret it and she would too... but now that I understand what being a parent is all about she is the best thing to ever happen to me.... SO anywho... enough about me. back to your question... being the age diffence i would be worried but thats just me. i know most of the 18yos in our area. and i would never in a million years let any of them date let alone hangout with my girl. but you need to sit her down and talk to her about sex and what can happen. The thing you have to understand is that if she wants to have sex she is going to have sex... Hard fact but it's true... She will find away to do it. unless you lock her in her room till she's 18 you can't be with her every second of every day.

YOU SHOULD TELL HER OF YOUR WORRIES AND SUSPICIONS, MAKE SURE THAT SHE KNOWS THAT YOUR THERE FOR HER AND THAT YOUR JUST A CONCERNED MOTHER WHO JUST WANTS TO BE A PART OF HER LIFE. DONT TRY TO CONTROL HER BECAUSE SHE WILL JUST REBEL, YOUR PROBABLY OVER REACTING AND IF YOU TALK TO HER IM SURE SHE WILL ALLAY ANY SUSPICIONS. BUT JUST THE FACT THAT YOU WOULD RATHER POST IT ON A WEBSITE AND ASK THE WHOLE WORLD BEFORE HER JUST SHOWS A COMPLETE LACK OF COMMUNICATION.

My Daughter Has The Same Issues Shes Dating a 19 year old @ 13 The Officer Said He Couldnt Do Nothing About It For Some Reason She Looks Prego And Shes Getting Bigger Every Week I Called A Detective Ive Known For 5-6 Years And He jumped Right On The Case Now the 19 year Old Now 28 Is Now In Jail Since He Was 22 And He Will Be In The Prison For Another 7 1/2 Years Thanks To Master Detective John Green

My Daughter Has The Same Issues Shes Dating a 19 year old @ 13 The Officer Said He Couldnt Do Nothing About It For Some Reason She Looks Prego And Shes Getting Bigger Every Week I Called A Detective Ive Known For 5-6 Years And He jumped Right On The Case Now the 19 year Old Now 28 Is Now In Jail Since He Was 22 And He Will Be In The Prison For Another 7 1/2 Years Thanks To Master Detective John Green

same things happened to me...but i'm the 18yr old guy, am now facing police questioning 7months on into the relationship. i feel like my life is ruined.
annoying thing is the girl i was seeing hasn't changed...she's seeing other guys, and she's pretending to be 17, even tho she's 13. and having sex.

same things happened to me...but i'm the 18yr old guy, am now facing police questioning 7months on into the relationship. i feel like my life is ruined.
annoying thing is the girl i was seeing hasn't changed...she's seeing other guys, and she's pretending to be 17, even tho she's 13. and having sex.

call the police, NOW!!!

who ever answer the last question is dumb

Im 13 but dating a 17 year old is way off in my opinion i mean if she really liked him than its alright...depending but, being sexually active at this age is bad (she has her whole life ahead of her she shouldnt ruin it) but ppl our age dont really like talking about our dating life specially with our moms and dads . you should talk to her about it but dont make her feel like you want to control her life

Im 13 but dating a 17 year old is way off in my opinion i mean if she really liked him than its alright...depending but, being sexually active at this age is bad (she has her whole life ahead of her she shouldnt ruin it) but ppl our age dont really like talking about our dating life specially with our moms and dads . you should talk to her about it but dont make her feel like you want to control her life

i wanna talk to a 13 yr old she's very mature but. i dont think so.

ok. im a 13 year old and im going to give you my honest answer. its good that your worried but if my mom got in my business i would be really upset with her. its uncool. but maybe it would be a good idea to take her to the doctor for a "checkup". or sit down with her and let her know that its ok for her to talk to you. if she is sexually active(whhich she may not be) it would be hard for her to be open and honest with you about it if you get angry with her or act like shes in trouble.

let her be!!!!!!!!!

what is she doing dating, period, at 13???

Hello,