Mother wash son p***s and f******n retracts and can not put it back

by Guest20295371  |  9 years, 4 month(s) ago

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My son is 10 years old and he broke his arm two weeks ago. Since then I’m helping him in bath. When I wash his genitals he gets erection and one occasion his f******n completely retracted and I couldn’t put it back for very long time until it became flaccid. He says it was hurting. I’m a single Mom, please advice.


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  1. Guest28437717


     Anita, it'll hurt him only initially. You are doing a big favour to you boy from a hygiene and future sexual health point of view. You can try dabbing a few drops of coconut oil or olive oil on the tip and leaving

    it for a few minutes. It'll be easier to retract when you bathe him afer that. 

  2. Guest28436658
    Hi, Anita
    I read your question, and it reminded me of my own childhood.
    I am an uncircumcised male, and when I was small, my mother used to retract my f******n to wash the glands. She was always very methotical when she would wash me. when I was just on the cusp of puberty, (a couple of years before your son's age) my mom had me wash my own genitals. She would supervise at first, then, after some time, she gradually had me wash other parts of my body. When she was satisfied that I could do it correctly, I started to bathe myself. By the time I reached High School, I usualy showered insted of taking a tub.
    I do not mean to sound critical, and I may not have all the facts, but maybe he is old enough to begin washing his own genitals? While they are indeed very sensitive at that are, he may be a bit less likely to become erect doing it himself. As noted, the f******n will stay retracted when the organ is erect, but wil slide back into place when it is flaccid no matter what causes the erection.
    As the mother of an uncircumcised boy, you know there are many things that are slightly different. I assume when he could urinate by himself, you probably taught hin to retract the f*****n when he urinates, because for one thing, his 'aim" will be off, and second, urine gets under the foresking and he will "dribble" in his undergarments. Since I will assume that you no longer have to assist him in urinating, he may be starting to get to an age when he can wash his own genitalia.
    I don't mean to sound critical, or if I am missing part of the information, but, perhaps


  3. Guest20670555
    that is because you gave him an erection
  4. Guest20302306
    Anita, DO NOT try to put your son's f******n back while he is erect, as this may cause the skin to tear and cause your son real problems. This could be why he was having pain. When he gets erect, it is best to let it be. When he becomes flaccid again, and eventually he will, the f******n will return over the glans on it's own. I understand that his erection may cause him some discomfort, but that is to be expected. The only way to relieve the discomfort is by o****m, but he probably is not capable of ejaculating yet. Boys that have not gone through puberty yet, as I would imagine he has not, have dry orgasms, where either nothing comes out of the p***s, or just some very minimal clear fluid. Since you need to continue to wash him, try to be very gentle when washing his genitals, especially his p***s. Unfortunately, he is at an age where his genitals are very sensitive to any touch, and he will get erect very easily, as you have learned. Be sure to continue washing the glans of his p***s and under his f******n to prevent infection. When washing his p***s, try talking to him about things that will take his mind off of the fact that you are touching his genitals. Perhaps you could talk to him about school, his day, baseball, his friends, your day, etc. Hope this helps you. Best regards.

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