Every number is grounded in the number 1. That is: 1, then you have 1+1, then 1+1+1, and so on.
If we add on the 1's forever, this will be called an 'infinity'. Since there is no end to the additions, there is no magnitude to infinity. Infinity is simply bigger than finite numbers, but that's it - that's all we can know - it does not have magnitude, but it contains all magnitudes.
Let me give you an example:
abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz
The above is the alphabet. It has no meaning. It is not a word. Yet all the words in the English language and all the semantics are contained in it. Infinity is very similar with numbers. It has no magnitude, no value, but all magnitudes and values are contained in it.
Now, whether we start at 1 or at 1+1, infinity is still infinity. For those who say a person who begins at 1 has more value that the person who starts at 2 (1+1) because they have an extra 1 have not grasped the true meaning of infinity.
Series A) 1+2+3+4+5+...
or
Series B) 2+3+4+5+...
Those people say that the first series is bigger. However, that is mathematically incorrect. See it this way:
Instead of 2 I will write 1+1 and instead of 3 I will write 1+1+1 and so on.
So, a new rendering of Series A would be:
1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+...
and Series B:
1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+...
Thus, you see that in the end, there is no difference. Why? Because the concept of infinity has no value. You can only add a value to 'another value'. But you can't add a value to something that has no magnitude or value such as infinity. Why doesn't it have a value? Because it goes on and on. Whenever you wish to determine a value for it, you have given it a limit, thus it won't be infinity anymore. The nature of the concept of infinity is not being able to give it a value, because values are properties of finite things.
The good thing about this question is that it's been posted in the Philosophy Section.
PS. As for the example of the man who is ahead due to the race with another man: first of all, the man will only be ahead if you ever stop the race - if you stop the race, you give it an end, you give it a limit, and it won't be infinity anymore. It will have a value.
Yet, the paradox here seems to be that when we follow the race until infinity, one man seems to be always ahead. Why is that?
This is because they will never ever reach infinity. If they ever did, that means there was a limit, therefore it wouldn't have been infinity.
So it is impossible for the race to go on until infinity because infinity is impossible to reach. Thus, every race would be finite NOT infinite. Therefore in every race, one man would always be ahead.
pps. As for the idea that an infinity can be 'more numerous' than the other, here's a little example:
Series C: 1+2+3+4+5+...
Series D: 1+3+5+7+9+...
Both series go on to infinity (which is impossible by nature). Yet C adds all natural numbers whereas D only adds the odd numbers. Yet, since infinity has no magnitude, there would be no difference between the two infinities.
However, the question is, how many numbers have been used in reaching this infinity in C and how many in D? We can safely say that in each segment of these two series, D is equal to 'half of C' since C includes both odd and even numbers. Yet, just like the race above, we can never ever reach infinity. That is why at any point, which is a limit, D will be 'half of C'. But if infinity is reached (which is impossible) then D will equal C (D=C).
So, whereas the two infinities are not different relative to one another, the finite segments that make up the infinities are.
Thus, the problem returns to our finite minds probing the concept of infinity.
Sorry if this has confused you, but paradoxes must be solved to clarify concepts and meanings.
Hope you enjoyed.