Ok, Right.

I'm in the same position as you, I would like sex but I'm thinking twice.
Look at all those comments up there! Theres people calling you a slag..
Your not a slag you havent done it yet! My advice to you is:

I'd do other things before sex, EG: Have a relationship that could include wanking the dude, or let him poke you.

Boys go like this... 'Aw wit mate, A acc just shagged that bired gadz'

When they fall out with you, It will get Around :(

Thats why i'm not doing it. Those people up there changed my mind :)

C'mon just don't let us down :) ! x

-Scotlanddd :)

youll get an std or aids

you are a women???

im 15 and i have it so go for it :)

GIRL, Dont allow anyone to mislead you, you are not ready for sex in the first place,This is to say, you are still immature,Am speaking as a medical Doctor .Secondly, You are not yet Married ,This is for married couples,Exercise self control,It is still a virtue for human beings ....not animals, Lastly you need Jesus Christ in your life, this is the only way you can hold your own. JESUS will send the Holy Spirit to help you..... U needed an Answer, i believe this last bit is best answer u can ever get whether u believe it or NOT

Well, I am 14 and I have been thinking about it for a very long time now. I don't think that sex is really a bad thing parents and people just say that so you will focus on all of your school work and stuff. Bu really I have been with my boyfriend for about a month now and we are both pretty mature, just do not pressure your self or let him pressure you into it, when the time is right you will know it:) really I don't know why every one says that sex is soo bad sex is just sex? well, I am going to talk to my boyfriend about it.:) well, best of luck for you chicky:)

im 13 amd im thinking about having sex but im not going to just im telling you dont do it im not u shouldnt but do what u think is the best good luck

go for it

No your a fucking whore and you will go to hell if you do this good fight life. Cunt bitch skank

hey do whatever feels right. im 13 nd i have had sex with my bf cuz we are in love and i dont regret having sex with him one bit. just make sure tht you are in love with him. and use protection. lol

honestly, do whatever you feel is right.
if you can say sex or inercourse with out laughing your not ready or
if you have second thoughts, but just think viginity is like trust
once you lose it you can NEVER get it back, me & my boyfriend have have been together for almost 7 months and wea re talking about having sex & im only thirteen but im making sure this is REALLY what i want becuase i dont wanna regret anything after its already happened, but if you truley love him & you can trust him go ahead but, listen to your heart not your head.

hii =) uuh ,okay. honey you do whatever feels right
if yu love himm nd yuve been thinking about it then
yuu wont regret it, i promise ! just know that it hurts.
but if you will feel comfortable like being naked infront
of him nndd afterwards make sure he checks the condom
to see if it ripped of anything which i highly doubt. nd
make sure yu guys hang out afterwards instead of just
doing it nd then leaving cause afterwards when you do
hang out again that can make it awkward. dont listen
to these answers. cause its your decision !

wow u sound sluty

im 13 also, and i know many people at my school who have lost their virginity or want to loose it.
all i know is you will get many things bad said aboout you, rumors could be started, as it has all happened at my school.
Sure your bound to want to do it at this age but i know many peopple might disagree but why dont you try to do other things.
But becareful because if you have oral sex then you can still catch sti's.
also the pill does not give you 100% protection from getting pregnant.
i know how you feel and no one can stop you if you are going to do it but just take in the advise :) xxx

DONT DO IT.

Me and my boyfriend talk about having sex...when were married!!!! (I'm kinda engaged... Well.... Can a thirteen year old be engaged..? Whatever,) We both are in love with eatch other, we have been for a long time, and we know it's real, we aren't those immature teens who think that if you date someone it's true love, we know what we have. But seriosly, don't have sex at a young age.

ok im a guy u shouldnt really have sex at ur age even with protection im not saying ur stupid but really i think about it to but u need to calm down i love my girlfriend to but we never will have sex until were both 16 but we talk about it

Well... If you know the risks, have protection, and are completely positive that you want to lose your virginity to him, then go ahead. If you want to do it, go ahead, none of us can stop you.

umm DONT BE STUPID because once you do it u will at your self and say iam 13 and not a virgin,and it will be sooo ocward with the guy that you guys wont talk or he will tell all of his friends and if u tell any of your girlfreinds that probably are 13 and STILL VIRGINS they wont get it and you guys wont talk anymore you will be all alone by yourself and think why did i ever do this and people will call you a whore and slut and no one will want to be aroun d you GO TO SCHOOL DONT BE STUPID LIKE U R NOW!WHY DO U WANT SEX SO BAD!

umm DONT BE STUPID because once you do it u will at your self and say iam 13 and not a virgin,and it will be sooo ocward with the guy that you guys wont talk or he will tell all of his friends and if u tell any of your girlfreinds that probably are 13 and STILL VIRGINS they wont get it and you guys wont talk anymore you will be all alone by yourself and think why did i ever do this and people will call you a whore and slut and no one will want to be aroun d you GO TO SCHOOL DONT BE STUPID LIKE U R NOW!WHY DO U WANT SEX SO BAD!

no ur not making the right decision.i am 13 and i had sex with my best friend and i feel horrible i feel liek a slut,yea it might seem liek u want to but after u do you wont want to do anything with guys.he will be mean and prolly break up with you after u give him what he wants. its not something 13 year olds should be doing u feel like a slut unclean and then u think to urself every night wow im 13 and im no longer a virgin all of my friends are and im not and once ppl find out ooo u will get picked on so bad u will get called a slut whore everything and if ur parents find out they will flip so be smart and think ok just dont do tht wait till ur ATLEAST 16 and its not what its all cracked up to be it hurts not only physically but emptionallly....so think before u have sex !!!

Please.... don't

girl im also 13 but just aboy but if u wanna have sex with him blowjobb him suck his kuck u dont get pregmant of that

Okay, kid, if he really loves you, he'll wait. It's a bad idea to do it so young, so just wait for a while and see what happens in your relationship until then.

ok listen im gunna be truthfull here, i bet half those people are lying about "other people" Im 10 years old. ok? you should be happy you have the choice if you want sex. in other countries, parents sell EIGHT year olds to TWENTY year old men to fu** their daughter. have you even told ur parents?

im 13 and im going to have sex in like a week so do it girl

if you want to then its perfectly natural as long as your wering protection from stds

wait two year for get best result

Hey what are you thinking??
we have the same age,but u i dont know.
I think u need to finish ur studies and have a job.
Because if u do that u will be a mother in early age,that's hard
Ow people today bla bla bla....they cant wait till they get in time to have a boyfriend and have sex with them.....
I warn u

NO WAY!!! With sex comes many responsibilities and your not mentally ready to handle alot of them. THen there's exposure to STD's. Just take your time; it's way too soon for that. Enjoy life, learn and live.

not going to read, your essay-
title says enough.

if your in the uk- it would be considered 'illegal'
&& your boyfriend will be behind bars.

DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im still a virgen, im your age (13) about to b 14 in feb, but anyway. My boyfriend is 16 we r both virgins, just saying. We joke around about it and crap, stuff teens do, we're immuture (and proud!!) But really, think about it, if u sadly, deside to do this.. you will b in a sexual relationship, and usally when u guys r hanging out, kissing, hugging, all that stuff, you'll prolly b having sex.. and on ur honymon, wouldnt it b a reward to kno u've waited all this time to do this, and with the guy commited to you forever. BUT if u do it now, sex on ur honymoon will be all like "yea wad eva ive done it b4, fun(?) but old"... Save yourself, if he loves you enuff he'll wait, and if he dnt, then wouldnt it b better to kno u put ur foot down and didnt have sex with him, instead of dewling on "He took wat was mine, forever.." Then he prolly tell EVERYBODY and ur known as a SLUT. My fran did that..now shes known as the slut, the one nite stand... So dnt do it. my mom was prego at 16, my gma was progo at 13-14..really? u want to throw ur life away over a fun night?

do it i have feelings for this 13 year old girl (im 13 2) and she said she sucked a dick for a dare and i think im gonna have sex with her but in the butt so she doesnt get pregneant

DONT DO IT!!!!!!! That is not for anyone not married. Your reputation will be ruined. I know people who have done this and have regretted it every day since then. If you like him enough, if the law says its okay, see if you can get married and then do it. But for now, WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!

DO IT! Have Sex
Dont Wear a Condom but make sure your BF pulls out in time

DO IT! Have Sex
Dont Wear a Condom but make sure your BF pulls out in time

babe, if it feels right, do it.
i did at your age and ive never looked back.
no matter what people say, you need to do whats right for ypu
but think carefully, if you where absolutly sure, you wouldnt ask anyone would you?

Don't do it, you're just a tween. Who THINKS she's in love, by the time you're in high school, you'll just be the town bicycle.

do it

do it

NO NO NO. STUPID IDEA. PLEASE WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You must be absolutely SURE that he is the man of your dreams!!! But having sex at such a young age isn't good. I think you should tell your parents what you're planning to do. And you don't seem like a bad person. If you REALLY REALLY REALLY HAVE to do it, then I guess you could. But think about telling your parents.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO...if it is real love it can wait...i had a baby at 17 and i just now got into college and i am now 25..u need to think beyond the love girly..we all go through puppy love at ur age..u want to act grown then dont have sex til ur married or at least old enough to take care of what may come out of it...

wow, you have really outraged a fair few people, well my comment would be that what is the point asking any ones opinion when its pretty obvious you will do it anyway. Just remember that it is very likely you will become pregnant, so before you go off and get pregnant and either become a young mum on benefits or have an abortion (you know-murder of the innocent) remember that a lot of people did try to warn you but you didn't listen.

You may think you are mature enough to have sex, but you should REALLY wait until you have grown up.

okay, first of all, if you were really mature enough and like you say, not a kid anymore, then you wouldn't be getting so angry at the people here who are trying to help you. I mean they are telling you from experience, and you just dont want to accept it. Look, 13 is the age of barely becoming a teenager, and I KNOW that is DEFINITELY NOT the age to have sex. No matter how much you love each other, i dont think either of you are ready for it, like you said, your a virgin right, so you wouldn't know anything about sex, when those who do know try to warn you all you do is ignore them and say it was a waste asking, well if you dont like wat your getting, then WHY did you ask in the first place? Look sweetie, no one wants you to grow up so fast, i mean, we all know that if you do, your gonna regret it in the long run. Please just listen to all the advise and make a wise choice. Its YOU who decides, and no one else, and if your truly as mature as you say u are, then i think you'll make the right choice and we've got nothing to worry about.^^ Good Luck with this and Good Luck with life.

why in the world would you want to have sex? you havent even gone to high school or prom or had your first drink? i was playing with barbies when i was thirteen ! not thinking about having sex! trust me you are not gonna be with him later on he will get tired of you and throw you away like a used tissue. dont be that foolish you have your whole life ahead of you your just a little girl dont be a whore!

Please reconsider your choice. You may think that you are all grown up but you are still a little girl and the presures and worries that having sex brings is not worth the hassle at your age. You might be on the pill but that is no garuntee that you won't fall pregnant and being a mom at your age would change your entire world and as much as he says he loves you please believe me that he will run like the wind if you fall pregnant. As for the most romantic and magical thing two people can do together you have unfortunately been reading to many books and watching to much tv. Yes it can be wonderful but it is more likey to be awkward, messy and unclimatic. Once the three minutes are up your boyfriend has orgasimed and you haven't the magic will have ended. You are both to young and unexperienced (i don't mean this in a way that you have to have heaps of partners I'm talking life experience and knowledge) to have a fantastic love life. Where are you planning to make love? You don't have a house other then your parents so that would be fun worrying there going to walk in. The car? that's right your to young to drive (does this say anything). A hotel? What could you both afford that would be romantic other than a 3 star! You have no doubts in your mind you are both virgins??? have you asked him? has he had any form of sexual incounters? You can get STD's from doing a lot less then having sex, so I'd ask him what his experience is and then I would ask him to have an STD check and you should offer to have one done for him (weather you have had any sexual experience or not) Only a fool would take a persons word if there risking there health.

If you really love each other you will wait till your older there is no rush to have sex if you are going to be "together forever"

You're 13, and on the pill? How did you get on the pill without your parents knowing about it? If your mom knows you plan to sleep around and she's OK with it, then I feel sorry for you.

OF COURSE YOUR "BOYFRIEND" WANTS TO HAVE SEX. HE'S A TEENAGE BOY!!!! DUH!! You need to be on the pill for more than just 1 month for it to be effective.

If you truly plan to go through with this, please have your boyfriend wear a condom. I don't want to see my paychecks going to support yet another unwed mother on welfare.

And, I have two words for your boyfriend.....statutory rape. If he's not old enough to know what that is, he's not old enough to be having sex. It means he can go to jail for sleeping with you, whether you say YES OR NOT!

I worry for the younger generation. Where are all the morals these days? Don't parents teach their children any better than this?

while you seem to be mature for your age, and your boyfriend also seems mature, understand a few things;

1: birth control is not 100%. you can use the pill, and a diaphram, and he can use a condom, and you can still get pregnant.

2: sex is a big step in any couples life. be absolutely sure that you are ready for any emotional changes that will occur.

3: recognize that us guys, especially the younger ones, tend to like to talk about our conquests, even if we dont instigate them, so there is a very real possibility that you will get a reputation that you dont want.

4: guys do tend to get jealous and possessive as well, and we have a bit of a time letting go of the women we love. so be careful that you dont end up with an ex boyfriend who is a stalker, stalkers do harm the ones they stalk.

5: some guys get it into their heads that all women want them after they have had sex, so dont be surprised if he starts chasing other girls afterwards.

6: some guys put on a front where they seem to be taking their time, and not pressuring a girl for sex, when that is part of their plan. when they get what they want, they move onto the next girl, especially at that age.

i would discourage you from having sex at your age. it would be better for you to wait until you are 18, and in a long term relationship before you take this step. too many young women take this step before they are truly ready, and regret is later. i dont want you to be one of these women. also dont forget your parents in this equation. what is their reaction going to be when they find out you are having sex? especially your fathers. remember your decision affects more than just you and your boyfriend.

You say there are no doubts in your mind, but the very next sentence is asking if you are making the right decision. If there were truly no doubts in your mind, you would not be asking strangers on the Internet if your decision was a sound one.

Since you asked, NO, I do not think you are making the right decision. What you call "the most romantic and magical thing two people can do with each other" is not something you engage in simply because you are "curious" about sex. Also, at 13 it is unlikely that your first sexual experience will be "romantic and magical." Other girls I've known who started that young have described it as "awkward and painful." (One girl told me, "It hurt like a b*tch, and there was blood everywhere." Sorry to share the graphic description, but you should know beforehand that it might not be the Hollywood movie you expect it to be.)

Losing your virginity is something you can only do once. Please consider giving it some more time. Believe me, you will have MANY opportunities for sex in your lifetime; this is not the last chance you will have. Since he loves you and doesn't want to pressure you, you don't have to worry that you will lose him by waiting for a time when you don't have to come to Yahoo Answers to ask if the time is right.

I personally, would hope you would reconsider. You are so young and the risk is just too great. You can be as careful as anyone can be, but you could still get pregnant even if you only have sex once. Sex is as much an emotional journey as a physical one and while it is unlikely that you will regret it if you wait to do it until you're older, you most likely will regret jumping into it right now, before you are ready for all that comes along with it.

One word: WAIT!

you are old enough to have sex when you are ready to deal with the possible consequences: STDs, pregnancy, broken hearts, negative sexual experiences later in life (the earlier you start having sex, the less likely you are to enjoy it later), falling grades, pain from the first few times, lack of parental trust and respect if they find out, etc.

I KNOW it is soooo hard. Kids are biologically ready for sex loong before they are psychologically ready. You do need some kind of outlet, but investing your emotions at the age of 13 to a guy is not wise. You may not die from it, but it will probably not make you all that happy, either. First sexual experiences tend to not be so much fun.

NO NO NO... wait!!!! you sound like your trying to convince yourself that this is the right thing to do. WAIT

Keep thinking about it!

i usually give very long and descriptive answers but this one needs only one. NO.

Let me start by saying I am also 13 I have been dating my boyfriend for about 16 months. Our realationship is mature but we both don't want sex. He is seventeen, almost eighteen. He has had sex once about three years ago. He has told me numerous time that he wished he could take it back.

I plan on staying a virgin until the day I say I do. Sex is something that should stay between a married couple. It would probably mean so much to the man you marry that he is your first and only.

Whether or not I say this, your going to do what you want but trust me words will be spread. People will find out and things will happen.

So if you decide to disregard my answer then use the pill along with protection.

Remeber though you'll just be like everyone else, just another teenage statistic.

Hope it Helps

Michaela

u shoudl wait till ur married and keep ur self pure for ur husband before u go and have sex! not to sound rude or mean u should totally wait for ur husband just say hey if u really want me we should wait to get married and then we can be toghether for ever cause wat if he just wants this one thing then after he'll be gone and u should both first be tested for aids!

Hope I Helped :))

<3 Good Luck with ur decsion... :) <3

Wow! I cant believe a 13 yr old who claims she is an adult is acting like this...

Hun you are way too young to be having sex.

Take the advice we give you to heart. A lot of people have been there and made these decisions. There are a lot of things that could happen if you decide to have sex so young. Well at any age really but trust me....Sex can surely wait for you two.

ok little brat! Why did you post this question???

YOUR EXACT WORDS WERE "am i making the right decision... "

YOU ASKED WHAT PEOPLE WHAT TO THINK. You just showed the whole world what a little B---H you are.

GO get laid-- you are in a rude awaking for what the real world holds.

Oh my god you are a child!!!!! no no no. You need to stop and think about this with your head not your heart.

You have not a clue what you are getting yourself into.

Can ur boyfriend take care of you and your baby if you get pregnant ? You guys should stick with oral until you are older. If you keep your b/f milked down on a daily basis he should be satisfied with that.

You just proved your immaturity by responding like that. Maybe try spell check if you want people to take you more seriously. I'm 15 and sexually active. You seem like your going to have sex regardless and you have taken the necessary precautions. Just remember he can still leave you after you have sex, or tell the whole school or a whole bunch of horrible things. Most of the people on here are just worried about you because a lot of emotions are involved with sex and you might not be ready for that. Your feeling might change and just remember you cant get your virginity back once you loose it. Stay safe girl.

I don't want to here the story. I just see the facts 13 is too young. Don't do it. You will regret it. I know you think you're ready now but save yourself til when you really are mature enough. I'm not trying to be some bossy cow I'm really hoping you'll take this advice on board. I know so many girls who have taken this route and please trust me as an older person it doesn't end well. If he truly loves you and you truly love him then you should be together for a long time so there's no hurry. Please I can't stress enough how against a 13 year-old having sex I am. Don't listen to the media or your friends or anyone who tells you that's the norm. Most people don't lose their virginity until they're much older and there's a good reason why.

Girl yes...I did and it was worth it to me.. u aint too young to have it..it doesn't matter bout yo age. do it when u and your boyfriend wanna...good luck...you'll like it after a few days!!!

Take it from me kid...hold out a little longer. You don't want to have a kid right now or and STD. Why dont you try talking to an adult you trust about this. If your going to do it anyway make sure your taking the pill right meaning the same time everyday and dont miss any. Its not fool proof.

Lets just make this as clear as possible...13 YEAR OLDS SHOULD NOT BE THINKING ABOUT SEX LET ALONE CONSIDOING IT.

Oh wow,

Can I tell you when I was your age, all and I mean all of my friends were having sex. Can you imagine 12-14 yr olds worrying and taking pregnancy tests??? At the time I thought there was something wrong with me. Why were my GF's all doing it and not me. I was the kind of girl who was a guys best friend, not GF. BUT, looking back, I am so glad I waited. Even as an adult sex confuses relationships, and you are just beginning your journey. I can't imagine the confusion and pain and worry it would have brought to an already awkward period in time. Just wait a little longer. Enjoy this time....high school will start soon, you will have new interests, meet lots of new people. I know this sounds cliche. but if he loves you as much as you think he does, he will wait. and if you are really questioning this choice (which you should), it probably isn't the right one.

One of those girlfriends got pregnant in the 8th grade. By the time I graduated Highschool, she had 2 kids and hadn't finished school. We all think we are invincible at that age, and we all learn that we aren't.

Personally I think you should wait. But since I know you aren't going to, you need to be on the pill for the full 4 weeks to have FULL protection. Even then you should make him use a condom. He may tell you he's a virgin but there's really no way for you to really know that. It's better to be safe than to later find out he gave you a PERMANENT STD. AIDS isn't the only incurable STD out there to worry about and it also isn't the only fatal one.

Being mature enough to handle sex won't come for several more years. Being mature enough to handle the baby that could come from having sex won't happen until even after that. I think you should wait. Protection is NOT 100% and I assure you, you aren't ready for motherhood. At 13, you can't provide financially for a child. And emotionally...you're still a child yourself. You have SO much time for these kinds of things...just be a kid for awhile longer. I bet you'll be glad you did.

Your far to young to be having sex, you shouldn’t even have a serious boyfriend at that age, your parents are crazy to have let you date at 12 years old. Please ask yourself this if I get pregnant am I prepared to handle that? Protection is not 100% I know a few people that have gotten pregnant and they used a condom or where on the pill.

Do us all a favor and if you have sex and get knocked up don’t come on here posting. I’m 14 and pregnant how do I tell my parents? Or I'm I pregnant?

Just a few questions for you:

What makes you want to "do the deed"? Are you curious, your body feels all tingly inside when he's around, you feel 'expected' to?

Also, how come you ask us...I kinda think you already knew what most of us would say.

I was thinking too - maybe your BF wants to wait too but he is just scared you will leave him. Please be careful. If you can wait...please do!