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Im 13 and think im pregnant

by Guest10076414  |  2 years, 7 month(s) ago

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Ok,so just a little over a week ago me and my boyfriend kind of had s*x..he's 15 and im 13 we did it because we wanted to,but the thing is I think i might be pregnant im not to sure on this stuff,but im pretty sure i am..me and my friend are thinking of buying a pregnancy test,should I.?and how do i tell my parents if the test comes up positive.?I need help and answers pleaseeeeeeeee.I've told my boyfriend I may be ,and he said if i am and i decide to keep it he's totally 100%into it sooo......help please

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  1. Guest24603142

    ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS DTS A DAMEE SHAME FOR YA LIL GIRLS OUT THERE WHO IS FXK'N AND SHXT THAT'S SAD! WTF MAN WHAT IS WRONG WITH YAUL? OMG THEN YAUL WANA BIN BABIES IN WIT BABIES BETTER BE READY FO UR CHILD'S TROUBLES!

  2. Guest23154426

    okay well im 14 almost 15 and i think that yes girls that have s*x at a young age is a daft thing to do BUT i think that there is no right time for it it just comes. it does not mean that they are s***s it does not mean that are slags. always use protection if you can if you dont wait two weeks after youve had s*x and then take a home test ( this is if you dont come on your period ) then if you are pregnant then you do not tell anybody for the first three months if you want to keep it becuase this is the most likely stage to have a miscarriage.it is your decision if you tell ur friends family or gardians but you must remember that this is always a difficult situation for you. its up to you if you have a n abortion or not it helps if you are in a stable famliy or surroundings. also i will add if you are then you must research everything strasight away and save as much money as possible and a little hint to save money is to buy some one elses baby things as they will be newish and alot cheaper my friend was going to sell her mums to me all of it for 100 quid soo yeah also i think that there is a posiblilty that i amk also preggers but i hav not had s*x ther are other ways of getting preggnant soo yeah x*x gd luck xx

  3. Guest22820348

    im in the same situation as you and my boyfriend has said that to but im un sure if he will stay with me

  4. Guest22805783

    having a baby is a life changing thing, you freedom, sleep, friends all dissapear. really think this through. you cant just up and leave when you want without paying a babysitter 40+, you cant go buy that awesome shirt at the mall because that last 20 in your pocket has to go to a bag of diapers. and when you hit 19 or 21 where ever the legal drinking limit, you cant go clubing with your friend on a sat night if you cant get a babysitter, and college is the most best time of your life and if you dont have the support you will never make it there cause classes run after you kid gets out of school, who will pick them up? who will drop them off? how will you pay for your child and college? there is so many things that i know you have not thought about that will matter later in life. I was 19 having my daughter and even then i felt i wasent ready, but i finished high school went to college, and lived with my man for 2 years befor i got prgnant. i am 29 now and we have 2 kids together trust me you will want your freedom so live it up when you are young, you will regret it if you dont and you have many many years to get old and have babys....... p.s  you girls should really use protection, its not just getting pregnant you have to worry about.

  5. Guest22634647

    im Thirteen an i think im pregnant i had s*x with my (boyfrand) He's great but the bad thing about it is that i think im pregnant i feel that me being pregnant will dissapoint alott of people but oh well it is what it is && its my mistake. Sidenotee;We Didnt use a condom 

    IM SO SCARED TO TELL MY MOM BECAUSE I THINK SHE'S  Gonnaa Kill Me [Not Literally kill me]

    I Need Help What Should i do?

    PLeasee Helpp Me.

  6. Guest22417934

     im thirteen and i think im pregrant i havnt had s*x but my bobbies like idk how to explain iht iwas layin on them and they started hurtin i havent had s*x buht i want to take a test to make sure my dad would kill meh if i really am i would have to kill it wit nobody knoin buht my bobbies i squeezed themand like sumthin came out of them like when you get burt and you pop the bump stuff like that came out and last week i was bleeding and i never had my period so tahts so no i cant tell by that !

    buht im scared if i reall am what to do and i cant keep it i havent had s*x wtf is goin on i need my sis they both killed theres one 15 one 17 goin to kill hers before my mom finds out o goshhh i need god i hope im not really pregrand i pray im not

  7. Guest21631526

    I'm 13 and pregnant I dnt regret it ! Ima havee it, I hvent tld my boyf h**l leave me if its true :/

    Will he?

    Anyways im with another 2 boys so i can always pretend its onee of theres. YH im on the list of top slags and i dn give a f*k. WOOP! Im a w***e :D :D xxxxxxxx

    My question is, should I tell my boyf? x If he accepts it Ill run away so then I dnt have to tell my parents. LOL! things are exciting x*x

    Ima havee it tonight, yeah s*x

  8. Guest21631526

    I'm 13 and pregnant I dnt regret it ! Ima havee it, I hvent tld my boyf h**l leave me if its true :/

    Will he?

    Anyways im with another 2 boys so i can always pretend its onee of theres. YH im on the list of top slags and i dn give a f*k. WOOP! Im a w***e :D :D xxxxxxxx

    My question is, should I tell my boyf? x If he accepts it Ill run away so then I dnt have to tell my parents. LOL! things are exciting x*x

  9. Guest21183288
    i think im pregnant what should i do ???
  10. Guest21183288
    im 13 + i think im pregnant to what should i do tooo???
  11. Guest20924612
    Your Shouldnt worry! If this is true and everything Then i know you've already had the baby! Im 14 and got prego last year with my boyfriend! You shouldnt be scared to tell your parents. They can be your biggest help. My daughter and son are about 5 months old.(* i had twins *),one boy one girl!> I got prego on my birthday. I had my party at a hotel and i invited my boyfriend. After my parents went to bed he came over and well you knoww.... And the good thing is he stayed with me because he really loves me! And i know it sounds like alot comeing from a 14 year old but its true. and if your boyfriend really does love you he will stay with you. not only for you but for the baby! My Baby girl was named aubrey, My baby boys name is Bentley!
  12. Guest20807140
    Most of you are still babies yourselves. But seriously You should have many more years before completly being ready to put another soul on this earth, that will look to you to learn to grow into a being that you have not yet, reached yourselves. I was 17 when i had my first child and I felt I was able to be a mother. I was in the sense of unconditional love and I was able to stop thinking about what i WANT, especially when i would go shopping, have to pass right by anything and everything that i should stop and look or even buy if i wanted too. But not when you have too buy so much (way more than you can grasp yet) unless your rich then yea for you. And your freedom? gone. You will not get yourself ready in the mornings as you know it for a loooooonnnngggggg time. Anyway if youve never lost anything that youve cried for weeks over or had somebody tell you that you have done something to change thier lives, PLEASE RECONSIDER giving yourself to a guy that rolls over after s*x with you completly gone from thier mind. A MAN that loves you cannot stand to see you hurt therefor he will not do any such things that he feels you would disoprove of. GOODLUCK ALL.
  13. Guest20326718
    well u abused s*x and ur soooo stupid but keep the baby. what the h**l r u trying to ask?
  14. Guest20105064
    i think im prego as well nd idk wtf ima do ps. im 13 as well
  15. Guest19328691
    Hey ive just been reading a few comments on here and im not here to call anyone im just here to say anyone that thinks they are ready for s*x should really read up on how to do it safely as you can get pregnant without having s*x,the boy can touch his self then you down there and it can happen like that,i think anyone ( does not matter on age as long as you have been together awhile and love each other )you should always use something like condoms and go on the pill just see your doctor about this,it will help in the long run and you wont have all the worry aswell! i hope i have helped abit.x
  16. Guest19151321
    hey. i lived in tennessee and had to move to Virginia because i got pregnant. and im dealing with the same thing.i can see by the dates that u probably already gave birth. all i can say to others is dont get and abortion. that is an innocent soul waiting to make the future.getting an abortion would be like taking a part of God and just throwing it away. u should give birth to this baby. and if u cant care for it, then ask family members if they can adopt ur baby. this way u can still be around ur baby but still be able to live ur life as a teen. well good luck to all. bye
  17. Guest18145484
    okay im not gonna criticiz anione but u need to go and buy a pregnacy test as well as some pills to stop becoming pregnant. My advice to u is not to keep it this will ruin ur future and any chances at a good job. If u do keep it just be concious tht ur taking on a huge responsibilty and it will be hard for u n ur bf in the comin yrs. aniway good luck with it all and hope this helped! btw im also 13 n i have had s*x - i went thro this as well n my parents never found out!
  18. Guest18040216
    I think that there is nothing wrong with having s*x at 13. Yeah its young. Everyone here knows that. But some of you are acting like she commited a murder or something. She had s*x. Everyone, well mostly everyone, will do it sooner or later. People think that teenagers dont know what love is or anything, but you cant put an age on a feeling. Its almost saying to a 5 year old 'your not scared, youre too young to know what it is." I am 14, my boyfriend is 15, we were dating for about 2 months or so, and we had s*x, we lost our virginity together. Yes, I understand that we had s*x early in the relationship, but if it doesnt feel rushed or anything, then there is nothing wrong with it.
  19. Guest18040101
    im just sayin all yall who keep sayin 13 year olds are s***s for havin s*x r dumbasses! u need to stay in ur own bussiness and quit critisizing people! like seriously, you have nothing better to do than to get on here and tell people theyre s***s because they fucked sumbody?!? thats really sad and you need to git a life!! btw im 13 and i have had s*x and i might be prego! anybody who has an answer for real please help me!!!!
  20. Guest17982338
    ok im 13 and i had s*x.but with my boyfrend.i be reading and they be saying they be fuking guys they just meet.and tats being a s**t.i thonk im prego and i feel bad cuz im a critian.and it hurts.i didnt even us a condom.im scared.
  21. Guest17917853
    well u abused s*x first of all and u must get a pregnancy test and u knew u culd get prego and u must tell ur rents and u deserve the punishment and dont abort the baby....even if ur parents try to make u do...be strong and stand up for ur child
  22. Guest17612579
    Also i an thirteen, and it wasn't my choice to have s*x but the "boy" said he loved me and he locked me in an abandoned apartment.And well you know whats next.But me and that boy were in a relationship until my mom told me i couldn't date and made up break up. H e is 15 years old and i love him so much. We had s*x mar 21.2010 and i haven't had my period since the beginning of February!!! It is now March.28th 2010... i have no idea wat to doi havent seen the boy since we had s*x,and ive been feeling different. Im really scared i just cant be pregnant please someone help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! p.s(My birthday is April 11.th................) ill be 14
  23. Guest17178915
    you stupid f*****g s**t!!!!!!! IM f****n SICK AND TIRED OF 13 YR OLDS HAVING s*x NO ITS NOT FUN NO ITS NOT COOL IT MAKES U A f*****g s**t!!! gahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
  24. Guest16785326
    ok im really scared i had s*x and the condom broke and he didnt pull out before and the condom was completly broke and like 2 hours later i toke the plan b pill just one i didnt know wat to do so i got one off my aunt right away and the last word my mom said to me was im not takin care of another kid and ur suppose to bleed the day after but i didnt and my mom wont talk to me im so young i dont even no wats goin on im scared i really am i need help and i wont only be kicked out but other stuff will happen but im not sayin cause its personal
  25. Guest16784854
    Im 13 but i never had s*x but i do have a boyfriend but like i would have s*x but im not ready too do it yet but i just started getting my period like after christmas which was like 2 months ago but i dont remember on what days i get them for or how long because im not used to them yet but like there is only 6 days left in febuary and i still didnt have my period but im very scared if i am pregnant but im sure that im not since i never had s*x but what happends if the 6 days go by without me even having my period.i would get very worried but i would be to afraid to go to the chemist and get a pregnancy test to see if i am pregnant or not.HELP PLEASE... am i pregant or not even thought i didnt have s*x
  26. Guest14632832
    come on now,. you really shouldn't be having s*x at 13! Like, honestly? you aren't ready or mature enough for that. I almost made the same mistake, but i didn't. and i'm glad i did. because, i dont want to feel how some people feel when they realise the condom broke, or they weren't protected and now they have to tell their parents they had s*x and are now pregnate. :S What kind of world do we live in...? DMRR
  27. Guest13676379
    i knw hw u feel i also am 13 an think i might be pregnant because we didnt use protection bt then he broke up with me the next day so if i am pregnant idk wt to do
  28. Guest13618745
    Im 13 will be 14 in April... I had s*x with a dude i barely knew.. But He was so s**y and said it wont hurt.. Him and I are not in a relationship and I think I MIght Be pregnant... I cant tell my parents or him.... But there is no way i could ever kill my baby..... So I know how You feel...
  29. Guest13057350
    Hello, well.. first things first. im 13. i went to the beach with my family and my bestfriend. i had s*x with a guy i just met, but kind of pressured into it.. he was 19 at the time, but he didnt tell me that.. he said he was 16. i took an at home pregnancy test, four weeks after it happend.. it came up negative.. iwas at cheerleading practice, and my dad walks in the door, and says.. hey, we gotta run to the doctors again for some tests. the doctors told my parents to tell everyone i had mono if they asked. thats why i havnt felt good.. my mom was originaly sopposed to be in south caroline with her friends. i walked into the doctors office, to find my mom.. crying next to my doctor.. i knew it was happening right there. i went to the doctors a few days before that, and they tested me for everything imaginable.. i walked in, and just collapsed on the floor.. everything was happening so fast. i burst into tears, feeling so bad because i disapointed my family.. ive kept this quite. but.. i got an abortion. i had no other choice. i got a scholarship to an amazing private highschool. i was captain of my cheerleading squad, straight A student. and was the student council president. my point of view.. please dont get an abortion. i know you might have alot going for you.. but itll be worth it in the end. i have suicidal thoughts daily. little things bring back the worst memories.. and i keep replaying the day of it, over and over again.. if i could go back right now, i would have kept it in a heart beat, because i never knew i would feel like this.. honestly it sucks.
  30. Guest12635175
    you arent alone. i am 13 and i am also pregnant. things will go just fine if you tell your parents during dinner, when everything is calm. that is what i did. if you decide to keep this baby i can guarantee that it will be the best thing that has ever happened to you. i am 32 weeks along and my boyfriend has proposed to me. Although we have made the mistake of having s*x, dont get married right away. wait until you are older.also, if people in school are calling you names, just ignore them. when you tell your friends some of them might stick with you and some of them wont like you anymore. the ones that stick with you are you true friends.Good Luck Hun!!! :)
  31. Guest11019444
    first of all before you completely panic, find out you are definatly pregnant. your lucky to have such a supportive boyfriend and if you are, tell your parents in person and go with your boyfriend. be serious and dont cry, they will either be in shock or be mad, but not always.. let them have time to calm down and then talk to them calmly. choose what you want, good luck with your decision x
  32. Guest10813742
    im in the same postition and geuss what i am pregnant i think the dad might leave me because he actauly had a gf at the time what should i do ????? PS : se is preganant to
  33. Guest10776638
    there once was a girl and he was pregnant month 1: hi mommy. im in your stomach. it is very comfortable in here. im not ready to leave yet. month 2: mommy, im still very small. but i cant wait to meet you! month 3: im starting to grow! before you know it, ill be big and strong! month 4: mommy im a girl! arent you proud? i cant wait to be your little princess:) month 5: guess what mommy? i have hair. i really like it. it is soft and fine. month 6: mommy, why are we at the doctor? what is that mean man saying? what is an abortion? what is that needle for? oww oww! mommy stop him! it burns! i cant get away from it! mommy i am an angel. i met this nice man named jesus. he.told me what an abortion was... why dont you want me? i thought you loved me... well i love you jesus told me that he will love me and raise me to be big and strong.... *if you are against abortions you will send this to 10 ppl* thtsz a fwd tht isz so true aborationsz ! there just fcken wrong if u can live y cant tht baby !
  34. Guest10724556
    well you wanna hear some sadd i had started having s*x at 10 and i regret it i had a 3 some and everyone at school called meh a s**t becus i had my period at that age and got pregnate :[ i love having s*x its amazing buht you have yo use protection tell your parentsz theyll understand
  35. Guest10164004
    You dont go for abortion dangit! ;/ Think truly over what you did ? Because i know it may be hard for you to hear this; but its sorta your fault! Think it over and over; and dont regret it! Your very lucky your boyfriend is totally with you! Good Luck; and now you know the consequenses! Take care of your self!<3
  36. Guest10106529
    Hi, get a home pregnancy test to confirm if you are pregnant. You can go to your doctor to verify this too. IF you are pregnant...it's not the end of the world. You parents may be mad in the beginning, but it will go away. Parents generally see the big picture. I knew many girls in high school that had their baby, lived at home, continued going to school, etc. PLEASE don't do anything foolish or dangerous to your self or baby. Other options are abortion, giving baby up for adoption or please go to http://www.newbornlifeline.org/ this website is for young girls who are pregnant and scared. They want to stop girls from deserting or killing their newborns out of fear. It happens a lot. They can either directly help you or guide you to someone who can. Check out the site for all the info and how to contact them. It's not the end of the world or your life. There are options...there are more people out there than you think (including your parents most likely) who will help you. take care
  37. Guest10100333
    ok then go for abotion and do it again and don't forget to take ipill or condom
  38. Guest10100333
    ok then go for abortion and do it again and don't forget to take ipill or condom
  39. Guest10090584
    this is why you don't "kind of" have s*x at 13

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