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Im 13 and i think im pregnant.me and the guy i think im preg with arent talking what should i do?

i had my period 2 days before i had sex last and wich was like 2 months ago and im geting fatter but im not eatin alot.i cant even get ahold of the guy i think i am with he moved out of his parents house and wouldnt give me his new number.he calls me when its good for him and blocks his number.

i dont want to tell my mom becouse she still hates me from the last time i got pregnant so i dont know what i should do.do u think im pregnant?do u think i should tell my mom?
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Guest13187897
3 days, 16 hour(s) ago

i think most of the comments to you were bang out of order wtf do they know about your life bunch of ass holes there is only you and your family that matter and can get through this random people calling you slut etc is not going to help you.. being a mum yourself i think you would prefer it if your child felt he or she could come and talk to you and get support off you i know i would im 19 and have a 6 mth baby and im 5 weeks pregnant two differnt dads i told my mum she was cross but she will come round and no matter what your kids will always love you no matter who you are or what happened your there mum. think about your options carefully hon really do its a big decisition and so easily made wrong think you got time on your hands speak with a family planning adviser good luck hope it all works out for you i really do and remember hate is a very strong word your mum is most likely dissapointed and humiliated but she will come round a mums love is unconditional you should know that. x .


Megan
1 week, 4 day(s) ago

Oh no sweety, do not worry. It is wrong to be pregnant at that age. please keep me updated! Oh honey, what have you gotten into! You are far to young! The pain is tremendous and you wouold be traumatized forever, and not only that but your child has the slimmest chance of living. Your body cannot support another life yet. I am sorry, but your life could be at risk too. Horrible!!! Please keep me in the flow! I can give you advice3 because I have 4 kids. I am only 26, so I know what your going through.BUT I know you DO NOT want to tell your parents. If you dont have your period for more than 3 months TELL THEM! I didn't, and I was kicked out of my home. Please sweety, tell them. I know it can be hard. BUT what my friend did is this:
EMAIL IT! smart right? well tell her NOT to yell at you!!!! PLEASE KEEP ME IN THE LOOP! I CARE AND THATS FINAL! And if your lying, fuck you!


Megan
1 week, 4 day(s) ago

Oh no sweety, do not worry. It is wrong to be pregnant at that age. please keep me updated! Oh honey, what have you gotten into! You are far to young! The pain is tremendous and you wouold be traumatized forever, and not only that but your child has the slimmest chance of living. Your body cannot support another life yet. I am sorry, but your life could be at risk too. Horrible!!! Please keep me in the flow! I can give you advice3 because I have 4 kids. I am only 26, so I know what your going through.BUT I know you DO NOT want to tell your parents. If you dont have your period for more than 3 months TELL THEM! I didn't, and I was kicked out of my home. Please sweety, tell them. I know it can be hard. BUT what my friend did is this:
EMAIL IT! smart right? well tell her NOT to yell at you!!!! PLEASE KEEP ME IN THE LOOP! I CARE AND THATS FINAL!


Guest12854368
Guest12854368
1 week, 4 day(s) ago

Before you jump to conclusions, take a test and find out. If you are pregnant, dont get an abortion. It is not the babies fault. If you dont have a good support system, which it doesnt sound like you do, think about adoption. Just take care of yourself in the meantime. It isnt about you now. It is all about that baby. Whether you like it or not, you are gonna have to tell your mom. After you have this baby if you are pregnant or if you arent, Abstinence works wonders. If you cant stop having sex, get on birth control at least. Just remember, All of the guys you are going to have in your life for the next few years will not be there 10 years from now. Dont give yourself to someone who is going to change their mind.


Guest12791215
Guest12791215
1 week, 5 day(s) ago

wow 13..... we all make mistakes thats life. but you shouldve learned the 1st time you got pregnant. I think you should have ur baby so you can see what its like. maybe youll grow up. its not easy. you have no respect for ur mother or yourself. you shouldnt be having unprotected sex. now your mother or whoever has to care for this baby. most importantly do you know all the disease in the world. show more respect for yourself next time and use a condom.


Guest12487995
Guest12487995
2 weeks, 5 day(s) ago

im in the same posistion as you atm, ive not long just found out im pregnant and it was a big shock, ive just turned 14 and been with my boyfriend for a year and everythings gone great, hes abit older then me, ignore people that judge you on here because i bet they've have mistakes and this is obvz one of yours, im keeping my baby and its gonna be hard but tbh, your still young and i know i carnt talk but you carnt even get hold of the babys dad, you need someone to stick by you, i honestly think you should have a proper think about this before you make a desicion because it could be a right or wrong, i hope everything goes well :) xxxxxxxxx


Guest12156280
Guest12156280
4 weeks, 1 day(s) ago

u stupid stupid little girl!!!


Guest12064881
Guest12064881
1 month, 2 day(s) ago

Ppl who call u these things are wrong and saying your too yong to have sex they probably did it too it may be a mistake but shit what is life?


Guest11876928
Guest11876928
1 month, 7 day(s) ago

Well it seems like you have issuse with not using a condom and birth control! your 13 and shouldt be having sex! it takes 2 to tango so this is just as much ur fault but if you dont want your baby there are tonz of woman who can have kids why be selfish and toss a baby in the garbage maybe if you keep the baby if will help you realize that sex is for adults if your not ready to be a parent dont have sex!


Guest11856026
Guest11856026
1 month, 9 day(s) ago

WITCH EVER PERSON TRY TO TEL U TO GO FOR A FKN ABORTION DONT FKN GO THE BABY DINT ASK TO BE BORN U DINT ASK FOR IT OR THE GUY DINT ASK GOD PUT THIS BABY ALIVE FOR A REASON LET IT GROW AND GIVE THE SOON TO BE CHILD HAVE A LIFE SO DONT GO FOR ABORTION IF U DONT WANT THE KID GIVE IT TO SOMEOEN I LOVE KID I WOULD TAKE IT BUT I DONT HAVE THE MONEY TO ADOPT ONE SO IL WAIT TILD I CAN GET PREGNANT IF U WANNA TALK TO ME MORE ADD MY MSN IM A NICE GIRL IM 18 Y OLD HisSugarBabe@hotmail.com take care girl luv ya


Guest11782773
Guest11782773
1 month, 13 day(s) ago

Ok unlike the others I will be honest... I am not trying to be mean and nasty to you ok.? but what Im saying below will upset you but its the truth show you get the whole picture and reasons why. See links below as well and try and see the film. plus these. Dont think about doing anything yourself you aint a doctor and DONT go to someone who can do a back street abortion... They tend to go wrong, be agony, you die or never have kids again... Get it done properly in a hospital then no probs or pain...
Fall asleep, wake up, all gone. They are agencies specialising in this... avoid the catholic ones mentioned before as biased. Abortion advice and other pregnancy.



www.fpa.org.uk Family Planning Association
www.efc.org.uk Education for choice
www.bpas.org British Pregnancy Advisory Service
www..mariestopes.org.uk



Teen sex ed and pregnancy services.
www.childline.org.uk covers anything
www.brook.org.uk pregnancy and abortion, adotption female health



www.playingsafely.co.uk Sexaul health Line.
www.thereforme.com Advice for young people 12-16
www.4yp. Advice for young people
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Hope they help. Anyway... short bit is you messed up, you are not bad. you should get an abortion as soon as possible as too yourng and forget adoption as most here are not honest and leaving out the nasty side... as they want you to have babies. (therir relgion then gets more power) Most women get pregnant... you just did it way too early. Look Not saying go to mum straight away as dont know what she is like.., if nice mum yes if not be careful. see below. You are NOT NOT NOT a whore, *, immoral, fornicator, dirty, filthy or anything like that... You screwed up kids your age do that (thats why you aint supposed to have sex... bit late for that now) HUm (just a make you feel better hug no pervey stuff ok) You and boyfriend... probably due to crappy sex ed as usual and parents not keeping an eye on relationship. Sex unlike most things is serious and complex and lot more then you think you need to know with lots of lies floating around... Hence you should have waited and learned more... but to late so lets work out whats best now. Have an abortion ASAP whilst its still a bunch of cells that would not fit on a pin, no feeling, no nothing... It would be painless if in a hospital/clinic and be like a period... Then thats it, go on with your life, possibly with boyfriend... Never ** have sex unless on a depro injection (like the pill but one injection lasts 3 months so no forgetting it) AND using a condom... How did you get pregnant... what you do? he pull out as that dont work (willies leak come as soon as stiff for lubricant. You are on anesthetic, fall asleep, wake up all sorted... go back and play with mates, get a hug, go back to school, live your life, have fun , be you forfill your dreams, get a career, travel around europe, backpack Aus and thailand, be who you want to be and have kids later. Not being pervry but trying to work it out... If you give birth it will be a nightmare... trust me... you have to look after it all the time and I mean ALL the time. forget benefits... any you get will go on nappies . But thats forgetting the OH MAN IS IT GONNNNER HUUUUURRRRRRRRRTTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Ever seen the film alien? guess what they based the chest burster on? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, FANNY IS VERY SMALL AND BABIES COME IN STANDARD SIZES... SO ON TOP OF THE STRETCHING which takes like a day, hurts so much your screamming can be hear a mile away sort of. GUESS WHAT MAY RIP AND NEED STITCHING as too small for the baby to get out? Can you imagine that? and how bloody and hurtful it would be...? your fanny?and how it will mess up a future love life, and cause problems later when you may want kids.? happened to a friend and she was grown up in twenties so imagine how bad that would be for you... Birth aint a beautiful experience... go see one. Pro lifers many show you yucky pictures and lie saying you are killing a baby and stuff... you aint, it may look a bit like one but it ain't one. So its you or whats growing inside you. Boy friend may well disappear and if you got married you woudl probably divorce... You are two young... And the stress would mean you have no time together or to cuddles... Just always nappier or later looking after kid, all money on child care, little chance of handling school. Have you seen in the papers what people think of single mums... Im nice... I am saying the horrible stuff so you dont haver to go through it. Your friend wont be your mates no more mostly. Others all treat you like dirt, and the baby would be reated bad even though did nothing wrong as thats what relgious folk are like. No career, no social life, no love life, if boyfriend goes most guys unless 30+ and you grown up wont date someone with a baby, no prom, cant hang out with mates, no parties, no concerts, no mall, no life no uni, no soroity if in US, bno backpacking, travelling, 18-30 holidays, touys ... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont have the kid!!!!!!!!! ignore the pro lifers you dont have an baby inside you for 8-9 months... now its enhanced blood like what ends up on a tampon. Live your life.I don't know what your parents are like ie are they relgious nuts fierce catholic or worse muslim and pro life anti abortionists? If so Dont tell them yet as may attack or push you to have the kid or adopt. Make sure you decide then they support... serious take my advice. If parents are not uptight, moralisitic, overly strict relgious pro lifere or islamic types etc... Ie ex hippies, groupies , mum ok etc... then DEFFINETELY tell mum like er now... Note mum as dad will want to kill boyfriend (till calms down and realises you both screwed up. Adoption is not an easy choice but they make you think that as after the baby is borne its too late... Relgious groups like cathloics and pro lifers Say thay care for you nad the baby... They dont' they are liers ... See the links below. Thay will be all smiles but in fact hate you, care nothing for you, just want you to make a baby and would happily slice you open to get at it is it meant you or the baby. One borne those so nice folk would be spitting at your calling you a whore and a ** and benefit scrounging, falt stealing scum and mother of a bastard. Probably abusing the kid in kids homes ... Thats the reality of a lot or adoptions where the baby once you have bonded to it may be ripped from your arms and you will always regret it and pine for it once bonded(ie after birth) whilst the kid will feel abandoned aspecailly if abused, or in care and most in care end up on the streets, doing smack and turning into hookers or to crime... Sorry sad to say it but thats not what they say...They actually tried to force 9 year olds to give birth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again see links. And those they dont abort in the third worls again homeless child prostitutes for peadophiles blocking it out with brain destroying glue sniffing... They used to enslave girls beating them till they died in ireland for getting pregnant and selling the babies... see here so you can see Im not lying
'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdal
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.…
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/dra
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/SEX-IN-A-COLD-CLIMAT



http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressre
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa



So end bit again is hug, you must be going through hell. Abortion will deff be the best enabling you to get back to normal life as the quicker the better. See both sets of info and dont let the pro lifers scare you with morror photos... All operations are bloody and horrible. But make you better. Nor is that a baby inside you for a long time. Adoption is often a nightmare but the prolifers say its easy. it aint and there are babies around for these couples. Who often are selfish and care little for the hurt the mother feels when they buy the baby. having the kid will Dffinelyt ruin your life even if you mum offers to help out... It wont be all nice and cuddly... You are 13 now... So when your mates are having funninn uni you will be stuck looking after a 4 year old... You REALLy dont want to do that. And hopefully your parents will be cool but be careful of them if relgious nuts. its your body not theres, and certainly NOt the pro lifers or anyone wanting the baby inside you as your to them are nothing more then the shell , they want the fruit and wont care how they get it...I want you to be happy and safe and see ALL links


Guest11782773
Guest11782773
1 month, 13 day(s) ago

Ok unlike the others I will be honest... I am not trying to be mean and nasty to you ok.? but what Im saying below will upset you but its the truth show you get the whole picture and reasons why. See links below as well and try and see the film. plus these. Dont think about doing anything yourself you aint a doctor and DONT go to someone who can do a back street abortion... They tend to go wrong, be agony, you die or never have kids again... Get it done properly in a hospital then no probs or pain...
Fall asleep, wake up, all gone. They are agencies specialising in this... avoid the catholic ones mentioned before as biased. Abortion advice and other pregnancy.



www.fpa.org.uk Family Planning Association
www.efc.org.uk Education for choice
www.bpas.org British Pregnancy Advisory Service
www..mariestopes.org.uk



Teen sex ed and pregnancy services.
www.childline.org.uk covers anything
www.brook.org.uk pregnancy and abortion, adotption female health



www.playingsafely.co.uk Sexaul health Line.
www.thereforme.com Advice for young people 12-16
www.4yp. Advice for young people
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Hope they help. Anyway... short bit is you messed up, you are not bad. you should get an abortion as soon as possible as too yourng and forget adoption as most here are not honest and leaving out the nasty side... as they want you to have babies. (therir relgion then gets more power) Most women get pregnant... you just did it way too early. Look Not saying go to mum straight away as dont know what she is like.., if nice mum yes if not be careful. see below. You are NOT NOT NOT a whore, *, immoral, fornicator, dirty, filthy or anything like that... You screwed up kids your age do that (thats why you aint supposed to have sex... bit late for that now) HUm (just a make you feel better hug no pervey stuff ok) You and boyfriend... probably due to crappy sex ed as usual and parents not keeping an eye on relationship. Sex unlike most things is serious and complex and lot more then you think you need to know with lots of lies floating around... Hence you should have waited and learned more... but to late so lets work out whats best now. Have an abortion ASAP whilst its still a bunch of cells that would not fit on a pin, no feeling, no nothing... It would be painless if in a hospital/clinic and be like a period... Then thats it, go on with your life, possibly with boyfriend... Never ** have sex unless on a depro injection (like the pill but one injection lasts 3 months so no forgetting it) AND using a condom... How did you get pregnant... what you do? he pull out as that dont work (willies leak come as soon as stiff for lubricant. You are on anesthetic, fall asleep, wake up all sorted... go back and play with mates, get a hug, go back to school, live your life, have fun , be you forfill your dreams, get a career, travel around europe, backpack Aus and thailand, be who you want to be and have kids later. Not being pervry but trying to work it out... If you give birth it will be a nightmare... trust me... you have to look after it all the time and I mean ALL the time. forget benefits... any you get will go on nappies . But thats forgetting the OH MAN IS IT GONNNNER HUUUUURRRRRRRRRTTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Ever seen the film alien? guess what they based the chest burster on? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, FANNY IS VERY SMALL AND BABIES COME IN STANDARD SIZES... SO ON TOP OF THE STRETCHING which takes like a day, hurts so much your screamming can be hear a mile away sort of. GUESS WHAT MAY RIP AND NEED STITCHING as too small for the baby to get out? Can you imagine that? and how bloody and hurtful it would be...? your fanny?and how it will mess up a future love life, and cause problems later when you may want kids.? happened to a friend and she was grown up in twenties so imagine how bad that would be for you... Birth aint a beautiful experience... go see one. Pro lifers many show you yucky pictures and lie saying you are killing a baby and stuff... you aint, it may look a bit like one but it ain't one. So its you or whats growing inside you. Boy friend may well disappear and if you got married you woudl probably divorce... You are two young... And the stress would mean you have no time together or to cuddles... Just always nappier or later looking after kid, all money on child care, little chance of handling school. Have you seen in the papers what people think of single mums... Im nice... I am saying the horrible stuff so you dont haver to go through it. Your friend wont be your mates no more mostly. Others all treat you like dirt, and the baby would be reated bad even though did nothing wrong as thats what relgious folk are like. No career, no social life, no love life, if boyfriend goes most guys unless 30+ and you grown up wont date someone with a baby, no prom, cant hang out with mates, no parties, no concerts, no mall, no life no uni, no soroity if in US, bno backpacking, travelling, 18-30 holidays, touys ... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont have the kid!!!!!!!!! ignore the pro lifers you dont have an baby inside you for 8-9 months... now its enhanced blood like what ends up on a tampon. Live your life.I don't know what your parents are like ie are they relgious nuts fierce catholic or worse muslim and pro life anti abortionists? If so Dont tell them yet as may attack or push you to have the kid or adopt. Make sure you decide then they support... serious take my advice. If parents are not uptight, moralisitic, overly strict relgious pro lifere or islamic types etc... Ie ex hippies, groupies , mum ok etc... then DEFFINETELY tell mum like er now... Note mum as dad will want to kill boyfriend (till calms down and realises you both screwed up. Adoption is not an easy choice but they make you think that as after the baby is borne its too late... Relgious groups like cathloics and pro lifers Say thay care for you nad the baby... They dont' they are liers ... See the links below. Thay will be all smiles but in fact hate you, care nothing for you, just want you to make a baby and would happily slice you open to get at it is it meant you or the baby. One borne those so nice folk would be spitting at your calling you a whore and a ** and benefit scrounging, falt stealing scum and mother of a bastard. Probably abusing the kid in kids homes ... Thats the reality of a lot or adoptions where the baby once you have bonded to it may be ripped from your arms and you will always regret it and pine for it once bonded(ie after birth) whilst the kid will feel abandoned aspecailly if abused, or in care and most in care end up on the streets, doing smack and turning into hookers or to crime... Sorry sad to say it but thats not what they say...They actually tried to force 9 year olds to give birth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again see links. And those they dont abort in the third worls again homeless child prostitutes for peadophiles blocking it out with brain destroying glue sniffing... They used to enslave girls beating them till they died in ireland for getting pregnant and selling the babies... see here so you can see Im not lying
'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdal
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.…
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/dra
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/SEX-IN-A-COLD-CLIMAT



http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressre
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa



So end bit again is hug, you must be going through hell. Abortion will deff be the best enabling you to get back to normal life as the quicker the better. See both sets of info and dont let the pro lifers scare you with morror photos... All operations are bloody and horrible. But make you better. Nor is that a baby inside you for a long time. Adoption is often a nightmare but the prolifers say its easy. it aint and there are babies around for these couples. Who often are selfish and care little for the hurt the mother feels when they buy the baby. having the kid will Dffinelyt ruin your life even if you mum offers to help out... It wont be all nice and cuddly... You are 13 now... So when your mates are having funninn uni you will be stuck looking after a 4 year old... You REALLy dont want to do that. And hopefully your parents will be cool but be careful of them if relgious nuts. its your body not theres, and certainly NOt the pro lifers or anyone wanting the baby inside you as your to them are nothing more then the shell , they want the fruit and wont care how they get it...I want you to be happy and safe and see ALL links


Guest11782773
Guest11782773
1 month, 13 day(s) ago

Ok unlike the others I will be honest... I am not trying to be mean and nasty to you ok.? but what Im saying below will upset you but its the truth show you get the whole picture and reasons why. See links below as well and try and see the film. plus these. Dont think about doing anything yourself you aint a doctor and DONT go to someone who can do a back street abortion... They tend to go wrong, be agony, you die or never have kids again... Get it done properly in a hospital then no probs or pain...
Fall asleep, wake up, all gone. They are agencies specialising in this... avoid the catholic ones mentioned before as biased. Abortion advice and other pregnancy.



www.fpa.org.uk Family Planning Association
www.efc.org.uk Education for choice
www.bpas.org British Pregnancy Advisory Service
www..mariestopes.org.uk



Teen sex ed and pregnancy services.
www.childline.org.uk covers anything
www.brook.org.uk pregnancy and abortion, adotption female health



www.playingsafely.co.uk Sexaul health Line.
www.thereforme.com Advice for young people 12-16
www.4yp. Advice for young people
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Hope they help. Anyway... short bit is you messed up, you are not bad. you should get an abortion as soon as possible as too yourng and forget adoption as most here are not honest and leaving out the nasty side... as they want you to have babies. (therir relgion then gets more power) Most women get pregnant... you just did it way too early. Look Not saying go to mum straight away as dont know what she is like.., if nice mum yes if not be careful. see below. You are NOT NOT NOT a whore, *, immoral, fornicator, dirty, filthy or anything like that... You screwed up kids your age do that (thats why you aint supposed to have sex... bit late for that now) HUm (just a make you feel better hug no pervey stuff ok) You and boyfriend... probably due to crappy sex ed as usual and parents not keeping an eye on relationship. Sex unlike most things is serious and complex and lot more then you think you need to know with lots of lies floating around... Hence you should have waited and learned more... but to late so lets work out whats best now. Have an abortion ASAP whilst its still a bunch of cells that would not fit on a pin, no feeling, no nothing... It would be painless if in a hospital/clinic and be like a period... Then thats it, go on with your life, possibly with boyfriend... Never ** have sex unless on a depro injection (like the pill but one injection lasts 3 months so no forgetting it) AND using a condom... How did you get pregnant... what you do? he pull out as that dont work (willies leak come as soon as stiff for lubricant. You are on anesthetic, fall asleep, wake up all sorted... go back and play with mates, get a hug, go back to school, live your life, have fun , be you forfill your dreams, get a career, travel around europe, backpack Aus and thailand, be who you want to be and have kids later. Not being pervry but trying to work it out... If you give birth it will be a nightmare... trust me... you have to look after it all the time and I mean ALL the time. forget benefits... any you get will go on nappies . But thats forgetting the OH MAN IS IT GONNNNER HUUUUURRRRRRRRRTTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Ever seen the film alien? guess what they based the chest burster on? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, FANNY IS VERY SMALL AND BABIES COME IN STANDARD SIZES... SO ON TOP OF THE STRETCHING which takes like a day, hurts so much your screamming can be hear a mile away sort of. GUESS WHAT MAY RIP AND NEED STITCHING as too small for the baby to get out? Can you imagine that? and how bloody and hurtful it would be...? your fanny?and how it will mess up a future love life, and cause problems later when you may want kids.? happened to a friend and she was grown up in twenties so imagine how bad that would be for you... Birth aint a beautiful experience... go see one. Pro lifers many show you yucky pictures and lie saying you are killing a baby and stuff... you aint, it may look a bit like one but it ain't one. So its you or whats growing inside you. Boy friend may well disappear and if you got married you woudl probably divorce... You are two young... And the stress would mean you have no time together or to cuddles... Just always nappier or later looking after kid, all money on child care, little chance of handling school. Have you seen in the papers what people think of single mums... Im nice... I am saying the horrible stuff so you dont haver to go through it. Your friend wont be your mates no more mostly. Others all treat you like dirt, and the baby would be reated bad even though did nothing wrong as thats what relgious folk are like. No career, no social life, no love life, if boyfriend goes most guys unless 30+ and you grown up wont date someone with a baby, no prom, cant hang out with mates, no parties, no concerts, no mall, no life no uni, no soroity if in US, bno backpacking, travelling, 18-30 holidays, touys ... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont have the kid!!!!!!!!! ignore the pro lifers you dont have an baby inside you for 8-9 months... now its enhanced blood like what ends up on a tampon. Live your life.I don't know what your parents are like ie are they relgious nuts fierce catholic or worse muslim and pro life anti abortionists? If so Dont tell them yet as may attack or push you to have the kid or adopt. Make sure you decide then they support... serious take my advice. If parents are not uptight, moralisitic, overly strict relgious pro lifere or islamic types etc... Ie ex hippies, groupies , mum ok etc... then DEFFINETELY tell mum like er now... Note mum as dad will want to kill boyfriend (till calms down and realises you both screwed up. Adoption is not an easy choice but they make you think that as after the baby is borne its too late... Relgious groups like cathloics and pro lifers Say thay care for you nad the baby... They dont' they are liers ... See the links below. Thay will be all smiles but in fact hate you, care nothing for you, just want you to make a baby and would happily slice you open to get at it is it meant you or the baby. One borne those so nice folk would be spitting at your calling you a whore and a ** and benefit scrounging, falt stealing scum and mother of a bastard. Probably abusing the kid in kids homes ... Thats the reality of a lot or adoptions where the baby once you have bonded to it may be ripped from your arms and you will always regret it and pine for it once bonded(ie after birth) whilst the kid will feel abandoned aspecailly if abused, or in care and most in care end up on the streets, doing smack and turning into hookers or to crime... Sorry sad to say it but thats not what they say...They actually tried to force 9 year olds to give birth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again see links. And those they dont abort in the third worls again homeless child prostitutes for peadophiles blocking it out with brain destroying glue sniffing... They used to enslave girls beating them till they died in ireland for getting pregnant and selling the babies... see here so you can see Im not lying
'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdal
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.…
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/dra
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/SEX-IN-A-COLD-CLIMAT



http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressre
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa



So end bit again is hug, you must be going through hell. Abortion will deff be the best enabling you to get back to normal life as the quicker the better. See both sets of info and dont let the pro lifers scare you with morror photos... All operations are bloody and horrible. But make you better. Nor is that a baby inside you for a long time. Adoption is often a nightmare but the prolifers say its easy. it aint and there are babies around for these couples. Who often are selfish and care little for the hurt the mother feels when they buy the baby. having the kid will Dffinelyt ruin your life even if you mum offers to help out... It wont be all nice and cuddly... You are 13 now... So when your mates are having funninn uni you will be stuck looking after a 4 year old... You REALLy dont want to do that. And hopefully your parents will be cool but be careful of them if relgious nuts. its your body not theres, and certainly NOt the pro lifers or anyone wanting the baby inside you as your to them are nothing more then the shell , they want the fruit and wont care how they get it...I want you to be happy and safe and see ALL links


Guest11656157
Guest11656157
1 month, 19 day(s) ago

Look im 13 aswell and ive had sex 3 times.. them 3 times were the worst mistakes i have ever made. the first time i had sex i thought i was pregnant and told my boyfriend and he didnt want anything to do with me we had a argument and he told everyone and before i knew it no one wanted to no me. but i got through it. the best thing to do is decide weather u want to keep the baby or have a abortion before telling anyone. once you have made your mind up tell your mum the truth! she will be happier if u tell her the truth than if she finds out through someone else. if your boyfriend is acting like this then he obviously wasnt thinking about the responsiblities when you had sex, he wasnt responsiable, his not to be trusted, if your going to keep your baby the best thing is to have nothing to do with him, it sounds hard and harsh but i no alot of people who have got through this themselfs and i believe anyone can do the same if they put the work in. good luck.


Guest11602412
Guest11602412
1 month, 22 day(s) ago

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Guest11590351
Guest11590351
1 month, 23 day(s) ago

Dont worry your guy will come back it was probebly just shock. And well ya mom will find out whether u tell her now or she finds out from a friend. I got preggy at 13 and have a 3 yr old child and im now 16 and preggy with TWINS this time.( my fella and i cant believe we will haave 4 kids before i am 18 he is 20) My bf did a runner to he came back 4 weeks before i gave birth. My mom understood. We were useing pretection but well it must of broke. Anyway tell your mom she is the only one who will be able to slightly relate to whats happeing. All the best xxx


Guest11506081
Guest11506081
1 month, 28 day(s) ago

Hey, first off I know you dont want to here this, BUT you are too young to be having sex. I had my first child at 16 and it has been the biggest challenge for me and my daughter who is now 10 years old. I wasn't ready to stop hanging out with my friends and to give up my life to raise a child, but I had to sacrifice everything about me because I had sex and got pregnant. If your pregnant good luck...your gonna need it because it will be hard, but if not, I hope that you get that chance a didn't. I remember the way people who were older and people me age used to look at me...like I was retarted. I got a ton of stretch marks and gained a lot of weight. Also, My daughters dad and I broke it off a couple of years after I had her. This guy that your having sex with I 100% will guarantee that he wont stay around even if your not pregnant. I know that you probably think oh what ever, but when you turn 27 and realize that you could have done things a lot different if only you had somebody to tell you like i'm trying to tell you!


Guest11378642
Guest11378642
2 months, 5 day(s) ago

all these grown ups on here or even teens calling you a whore need to shut the fuck up cause yall are who us kids are learning it from..... but im 15 an pregnant i think you should tell your mom an please keep your baby....this means god is giving you a second chance an you should take it



&& please if you do decide to be a mother to this child you have to grow ^ an stop messing with guys who dont really love you(i know from experiance)


Guest11347468
Guest11347468
2 months, 8 day(s) ago

run away and die
jk!!
wow ur having sex at thirteen! im thirteen and jave never had a boyfriend


Guest10106529
Guest10106529
4 months, 13 day(s) ago

Please don't listen to the negative comments.



There are options to help you. I would tell your mother. Parents can be mad, but it will go away. I knew many young girls who were pregnant in high school...they had their babies, lived with their parents and finished school.



Other options are: an abortion, giving the child up for adoption or go to:
http://www.newbornlifeline.org/



this website is for young girls who are pregnant and scared. They are trying to stop girls from deserting their babies or killing them. It happens a lot. They can either help you or guide you to someone who can. Their site gives you all their info and ways to contact.



Please don't do anything irrational and harm yourself or your baby. They are always options. It's not the end of the world or your life. There are people (probably your mother too) who can help.



Please use protection in the future!!!!!!



take care


Guest6332
Guest6332
earlier

Tell your mum. If she's been through it before she can handle it again... She needs to get you on the pill and fast! You'll regret your lost childhood otherwise.. truly.


Guest4964
Guest4964
earlier

are you serious, ever heard of PROTECTION?!


Guest4570
Guest4570
earlier

hahahh still mad at me from last time


Guest7316
Guest7316
earlier

im 13 and thats a little crazy to be pregnant a second time already. if your going to be sexually active use a condom. and how old is this guy if hes already moved out? and yes you need to tell your mom so you can give that baby to some adults who can conceive (: best of luckk babyy (:


Guest1943
Guest1943
earlier

As horrible as this may sound to you, I think it's a lesson to you that this kid isn't around for you to contact him or whatever.



Maybe now you'll learn not to have sex with someone you barely know, and especially at the age of 13!! Wtf


Guest2213
Guest2213
earlier

I was shocked when I read the title, and then when I read



"i dont want to tell my mom becouse she still hates me from the last time i got pregnant"



and found it funny, seriously. How could you possibly not learn?


Guest5898
Guest5898
earlier

Man if you were my daughter your * would be going to school and then home. You would not be aloud to go anywhere else without me. Your 13 years old, your a kid. You have been pregnant once, and should of learned your lesson. How old is this guy who "moved" out of his parents house? I hope your mom presses charges on him for rape. And yes she can do that if its older. You should be playing with barbies not boys. Grow up, by the time your in your early 20's your going to have 4 kids, with no education, no husband and living off of welfare. Do you want that?


Guest6733
Guest6733
earlier

HAHAH HOLY CRAP you're practically still a baby. You should get fixed or something.



You're 13 years old, do things that 13 year olds are supposed to do.


Guest9713
Guest9713
earlier

moms can be scary but have someone you trust take you to get the test if you are and you know where the guys parents live go tell them and see if they will help you get a hold of this guy make sure you are pregnant before saying anything to your mom so you don't get her any more mad then she already is


Guest6889
Guest6889
earlier

Good lord take a darn pregnancy test! Why wait. Go to planned parenthood they will help you out and get you some birth control. Girlfriend why are you hanging out with older guys who are using you for a piece of tail?! I hope to god this isn't real. I hope someone is playing a joke.


Guest7997
Guest7997
earlier

First of all your thirteen you shouldn't be having sex. Secondly just go to a little drug store and take a test check 2 or 3 times to make sure it's correct. If you aren't don't tell anyone. If you are talk to the boy find out how to reach him and tell your parents maybe you can get rid of the baby before it's too late. I hope everything works out ok. Good luck!


Guest5875
Guest5875
earlier

So what happened the first time you got pregnant is what I would like to know?


Guest4615
Guest4615
earlier

I feel sad reading ur question. Im 26 and I have a 3 year old daughter. Ur just a child. First of all, u need to tell ur mom. Buy the pregnancy test at the phrmacy and test for pregnancy. If its positive, go see a doctor with ur mom. Dont eat or do something urself cuz thats dangerous. Decide whether to keep the baby or not. If u do keep it then love it or give it away, either way theres no shame in it. Otherwise there are other options but u need to discuss with ur mom abut that. Next time after this, please stop having sex...if u still do go on the pill. U can get it from a doctor or a pharmacy. but i think u should stop treating urself like this, have more respect for urself. u should stay in school and think of ur future instead of being something guys use for fun....think of ur mom and ur unborn child. be responsible. either prevent ur pregnancy next time or stop having sex and at ur age i think u should just focus on school. take care and gd luck


Guest6843
Guest6843
earlier

'she still hates me for the last time i got pregnant'



Stop having sex. Seriously.



you're 13.


Guest400
Guest400
earlier

F*! 13yo? Come on! What is wrong with the world when 13yo's are having sex? Do you even have pubes yet?


Guest1767
Guest1767
earlier

Wow..you've been pregnant before this already. What is the world coming to?? All I can say is please give this baby up for adoption to a loving, caring family.


Guest5077
Guest5077
earlier

Troll.



Who gave me thumbs down? Look at her profile - she's lying. Idiot.


Guest8549
Guest8549
earlier

you are 13 and allowing yourself to be used in the name of love. i feel sorry that this is happening to you but you are part to blame. what to do -1-go to the police --they are good guys.--2--go to mother tell her who it was -the whole story --OK so she has a fit-but-she is still your mother. 3--go get a preg test/aids and all the other tests.4 -this is no way of life for you--if you get all worked up it is safer to play with yourself then you are not being used.


Guest6517
Guest6517
earlier

I don't think you are pregnant because you wouldn't no if you were getting bigger because you get bigger later not in 2 months


Guest3841
Guest3841
earlier

Hey,



I think the most appropriate thing to do is to:



1) Go to a medical centre/pharmacy/supermarket and buy a pregnancy test- find out for sure what's happening before you panic



2) Find an adult you trust and talk to them about this situation, You can't possibly deal with this on your own. That is too much weight to carry on a thirteen year old's shoulders.



3) Depending on the outcome, if you are pregnant- I suggest you termiate the pregnancy- Just think of your lost youth- imagine all the things you will miss out on doing. I'm 17 years old and have already seen some of the most amazing things in the world, i've been to France, Belgium, Italy, malaysia and the UK- My point is, whatever hopes you have for the future deminish when you have a teen pregnancy. you have all the time in the world to have a baby- when you are old enough! and i say that in the nicest possible way.



4) Forget about the boy whom you slept with, he's obviously not worth it- do you really want to continue being used? your so young and seriously these are the years, you need to enjoy being carefree- trust me, before you know it you will be all grown up.



hope my advice helps



goodluck



cooper



<3


Guest4408
Guest4408
earlier

lolslut


Guest6001
Guest6001
earlier

(a) tell your mother - you have to tell some adult



(b) decide to give the child up or to have a termination 13 is too young to be a mother; even if you think you are grown up



(c) take the pill - or do not tramp around - a 13 year old having sex and getting pregnant a second time is very telling - mother is in part to blame; poor parenting.



(d) if you keep the child you will live in poverty, no man will want damaged goods with another man's kid in tow



(e) the fact that he does not want to answer your calls is just more evidence of the immaturity EVERYONE experiences at 13 years of age - neither he nor you were old enough to have sex



(f) depending on the age of consent laws and where you live either he or both of you can be charged - and someone probably should be


Guest6891
Guest6891
earlier

bullshit, your just trying to get attention, it doesn't make you look cool, it just makes you look like a slut.


Guest4731
Guest4731
earlier

if you had gotten pregnat before i think you should know the symptons..i feel for you stupid dude cant be a man and help you..well take a preg test take several of diff types just to make sure and maybe you stomatch feels hard..idk..


Guest1735
Guest1735
earlier

Your screwed, really 13!



Since this is the 2nd time youve gotten pregnant I think you should have this child, DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS!



You MUST tell your Mother!



i cant even get ahold of the guy "i think" i am with.




  1. why would you have sex with a guy you "think" you are with


  2. why would you have unprotected sex with a guy you "think" you are with


  3. why would you have unprotected sex after you have gotten pregnant before.




Clearly your not mature enough to even deal with sex let alone being pregnant, grow up!



You being immature and stupid, and ruining your life!


Guest5326
Guest5326
earlier

I'm sorry but I agree with the others.........PROTECTION darling.



Unless of course you just like the attention that you get - or the thrill of being pregnant - or you are delibrately trying to get pregnant.



You need to pull you're head in girl. Seriously............


Guest7608
Guest7608
earlier

If you are pregnant i think your mum will find out soon enough.... maybe go and take a pregnancy test first and then if you still question it...then tell your mum and go and see a doctor as well.......



Either way pregnant or not.....you really need to learn that boys at that age are only interested in the sex and unfortuntely for you girls you believe that the guys love you and want to care for you when all they want is sex and to have some stories to tell their mates.....cruel i know but REAL.



Make sure you learn from this experience and stop giving up your body at such an early age to boys that dont really care about you.....



There is plenty of time later in life where a more meaniful guy will come along



Good luck


Guest4786
Guest4786
earlier

Are you really pregnant, or are you just an attention whore? My bet's on the latter, but either way, grow the ** up.


Guest2952
Guest2952
earlier

There's a possiblity that you're pregnant... If I were you, then I would probably tell my mom. Parents can be scary, but they love you and probably will end up helping you.


Guest4310
Guest4310
earlier

Tell your next sex buddy this phrase "dont be silly wrap your willy" trust me it will help.


Guest7008
Guest7008
earlier

"just wait sometimes if you really think you are u can make your self have the same problems like you are pregnant . . . like not getting ur period or gaining just like you would be sometimes if you really think you are the test will even say you are"



that when u hav already been pregnant at 13 u would stop having sex.



and if ur parents are mad about last time u got pregnant then think about they mustent be good parents cause they hav let u hav sex with guys that sound older then u and they hav allowed u to get pregnant twice now



u got urself into this again and u can get urself out of it



but u should tell ur mum or talk to a counceller


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