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I think I need to separate from my wife. We have been married for 5 years but have been together for 12 years. we have 3 young children together. I was 20 when we got together and she was 18. We were only a year together when she fell pregnant. My wife at that time was still living at home with her family and I with mine. My wife comes from a very broken family as her father was an alcoholic all her life and has only come off the drink in the past few years. When her family found out she was pregnant she was threw out of her home by her father. She went to live in her uncles for a few months until I finally got money together for us to rent an apartment together. We were so much in love and were very happy together. We thought nothing could come between us. A few months later or daughter was born and it was the proudest moment in or lives. it was an unbelievable feeling. Reality really hit home with me as now I had to grow up pretty quick. everything revolved around the baby. My wife later suffered from allot of depression and was on medication. She went and seen a councillor and talk for several months to find out the reason for her depression was due to her childhood upbringing. My wife and I ended up finally getting married 5 yrs ago in a registry office because her and my family were always judging us and telling us what we should do and how we should have the wedding. So we said to the h**l with it and done the quick thing and told nobody. After we were married we had another child and two years ago another. We both love our children very much but we no longer have anytime for us. None of our family will help us out with baby sitting so that even just once a month my wife and I can go and do something romantic together. I know I might sound selfish but I need to get out of this, it is driving me and my wife mad. Our life together is a routine. We do the same thing day in day out. I keep thinking that the only reason we are together is because she fell pregnant early and then she was threw out of home and I felt greatly reasonable. During our years together my wife told me once that she did not love me anymore and I begged her to give us a chance. After allot of grovelling she agreed to give it a chance. but things never really changed that much. I feel as though we are just to great friends living together. We have not made love in years. I love her as a person but don’t think I am in love with her anymore. What do I do???
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