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he had a few friends sleep over last night. and they all snuck out to go down the street to a girls house, and they all snuck out too. i went downstairs at 3 in the morning to check on them. and they were gone, so i looked outside and the three boys were walking in. and i pretended to laugh it off and i just calmly asked him where he was. and then when we got inside i took him into the basement and got a fly swatter and pulled down his pants, put him over the couch and spanked him about 12 times in front of his friends. was this wrong for me to do?
Tags: 12, son, spanked
You were right........I would have used his belt.and left stripes and welts for them to see and him to feel for a number of days!
Report (1) (1) | 4 years, 11 month(s) ago
Yea I would definitely say you were wrong and you should seek professional help for you and for your son cause he will need it after he becomes the biggest joke amongst all his friends! Not saying you were wrong for choosing to punish your son cause if your still one them parents that believe's "corporal punishment" is still the best means to control your son then you should have at least had enough decency to send his friends back outside while you take your son in the basement to discipline him! This would have spared him the psychological and humiliating torture he is almost now certainly going through!
Report (2) (0) | 5 years, 6 month(s) ago
yes you should have spanked in front of his friends in his underwear.
and his frinds too! but next time use something sting like your hand or a belt, ruler, or a paddle
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Report (0) (0) | 7 years, 4 month(s) ago
You had every right to spank him even in front of his friends, you should have even spanked his friends, sense it in the middle of the night.
Next time use a belt or paddle, spank them all in there underwear.
I hope you grouned him for a long time!
If you only used a fly swatter, it dose not work!
If it was my son not only would I have spanked him I would have grounded him also as well as put him in time out!
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Report (0) (0) | 8 years, 5 month(s) ago
I am more disturbed by the comment of stripping down 15 year girl naked ..in front of relatives and haveing everyone spank her. I personally think its wrong on so many levels.. she has to face the problem of that picture getting out there now also to have the whole family invade your privacy as well? the photo of her in her bra ..NOT NAKED for a whole audiance.
as for the woman who spanked 12year old ... Grounding is more appropriate, you people just ruined and tramatized your kids and when your old and need help you will be shoved in a nursing home and no one will be there to stop them from abusing you.
Report (0) (0) | 8 years, 11 month(s) ago
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Report (0) (1) | 8 years, 11 month(s) ago
i found pictures of my 15 year old in her bra on her phone, i was fuming and the next week it was a family gathering, i was there with my husband, our parents, aunties, and lots of people, anyway once my daughter came down, i told everyone to be quiet, i told her i found the pictures and said how angry i was. i ordered her to undress. she refused, i said if you act like a s**t i will treat you like one. she eventually gave in and took her top off, then her tights, and then the skirt. i said and the rest, she lowered her knickered and removed the bra, i put her over my lap and smacked her bum untill it was red, i got everyone else to spank her in turn, and sent her to her room.
Report (0) (2) | 8 years, 11 month(s) ago
Coming from a 12 year old girl: omg! You should have punished him differently. YOU EMBARASSED HIM INFRONT OF HIS FRIENDS AND NOW HE WILL PROBABLY GET PICKED ON UNTIL HE LEAVES SCHOOL. ARE YOU HAPPY NOW OR WHAT!?!? LOOK WHAT YOU JUST DID! YOU SHOULD HAVE SPANKED HIM AFTER HIS FRIENDS LEFT SO HE WOULDN'T BE HUMILIATED! NOW HE PROBABLY LOST ALL HIS FRIENDS ALL BECAUSE OF YOU!!! THAT SURE IS GOING TO AFFECT YOUR MOTHER-SON RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER! IF HE REFUSES TO ALK TO YOU,ON'T COME CRYIN TO ME OR ANYONE ELSE,YOU DID IT! IM ON YOUR SON'S SIDE. HE SHOULD ACTUALLY REPORT YOU FOR THIS!!! I MEAN,COME ON!THAT WAS TOOO OVERBOARD! WAAAY TOOO OVERBOARD!!!
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im 12 reading this and. . .wtf
So what, my grandparents were spanked(with a belt) if they misbehaved. My parents were spanked, and so were my siblings and I. Thats the problem these days, parents are too friken scared to discipline there kids. Everyones too worried what other people think about there parenting skill. And thats why kids these days turn out to be the spoiled rotten scum bags like your Snooki's and your Kardashians. Kids need discipline, sometimes just repeating the word "No" or "Stop It" needs a little reinforcement. If I have to tell my kid more than once, He gets a whooping...Not a beating...He recieves discipline...And guess what, It works!
Report (0) (0) | 9 years, 5 month(s) ago
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Report (0) (0) | 9 years, 6 month(s) ago
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Report (1) (0) | 9 years, 8 month(s) ago
I would have used my belt, or even a razor strop I keep for "specail occasions" and this was sure a specail one! Furthermore, I'd have given the other boys a spanking with the same implement I used on my son! With 3 teen sons at home, and plenty of their friends staying over, us parents have an agreement, if tthey need to be spanked-do it!
Report (2) (0) | 9 years, 8 month(s) ago
meanie.
Report (0) (0) | 9 years, 8 month(s) ago
I certainly agree with guest23344491..I think I have to and should report you for this...for one,you probably made this little boy lose his friends..poor him..you should be ashamed of yourself..I think i shoulkd report you...
umm,911???
(there is this really abusive mom who ruined her child's life and childhood)
Coming from a mom herself,a 47 year old. Well,I can report you if i want to,and if the website sees this,and disagreee with what you have done,they could report you 2,so i guess i don't have to worry about it.bye.
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COMING FROM A 12 YEAR OLD GIRL: This was sooo wrong because:
1)Maybe he snuck out because he has an abusive mom!
2)You shouldn't (never) embarass your own son (especially in front of friends)!
3)That is not a right way to disipline your child..you should either ground them,make them work harder with chores or something,or take away one of their toys but not spank them i mean come on,he's already 12!
4)He will remember what you did,and he will hate you...FOREVER!!!!
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yes, i think it was a little much. he's 12, you could have just punished him instead of doing that. i think it was overboard...
Report (0) (1) | 9 years, 9 month(s) ago
i think you were right to do what you did they could have been kidnapped. also he should have not went to the girls house without you knowing not to mition when you found theme it was three in the mornig. my dad spank me for the same stufff althoughu i wasn't going to a friends house iwent in the pool in the back yard 10 foot deep. but i got a switch on my barebutt 32 times next time it should be that way for theme way to go obeying god
Report (1) (0) | 9 years, 10 month(s) ago
I was 14 at a friends house for a sleep over . This was in the country and we snuck out and drank some of his Dads beer. He found out pulled my friends pants down underware and all and beat his bare bottom red, and then he pulled my pants down and warmed my buns! He was also our asst football coach and I am still friends w/both of them today!
Report (1) (1) | 9 years, 11 month(s) ago
No you were not wrong to spank him. If he was my son and he snuck out in the middle of the night like that i would have bared his bottom and given him a good hard hand spanking until his bottom was red raw.
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You took HIM into the basement ... but spanked him "in front of his friends". Were they in the basement too, watching? At 12, it should have been his DAD that would do the spanking ... esp. if it were on the bare. Like most groups, would not each of his friends have gotten a dozen also? . How many girls were there in a girls house? They snuck out too? 12 year olds ... 3 am ... where were the parents??? [From what I have heard, not many years ago the girls dad would have "tore up" your sons butt and his friends butts ... so that you and your husband would have had to wait until after they got released from intensive care at the hospital!] . .
WOW well what he did was wrong but like it is ok to kinda spank him but like, not infront of his friends that must be reallyy embarassing and it could effect his umm im not sure what it is called (SORRY FOR MY GRAMMAR) it is called like, social status? or something like when he goes to school? again sorry im not thinking right..
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well im 14 now and my mum has never ever spanked me and i hgave grown up too be very mature young lady and respect my mom, if my mom spanked me i would have walked out and lived with my dad (they're divorced) but its your son and if the punishment worked then good on you, but, 12 times? maybe a few too many and not in front of his friends 'cause he may get bullied now.
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