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I love my boyfriend, but I'm not really "in love" with him. Should we break up?

by Guest28398369  |  3 years, 3 month(s) ago

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So we're both freshmen in high school. I know, we seem too young for this. I'm 14, he's 15.
My boyfriend is really sweet, caring, and he really loves me a lot. He's a nice guy, and he'll listen to anything I'll say to him, he's a good listener. We used to be best friends, but I did have a crush on him, and I asked him out and we got together. We've been together for about 4-5 months now, so it's not long, but we have been friends for about 4 years?
At first I really liked him, and I was excited about us being together. Lately, I've been feeling like I'm not into him as much anymore. I still like him, but I feel like we'd be better off as friends than being bf/gf.
I broke up with my ex, and about 2-3 months later, I jumped right into the relationship with my current boyfriend quickly. I wasn't single for long, and I didn't really enjoy being single, so I haven't been in a while. I was with my ex for about a year and a half. (I don't like my ex at all, just to clear that up.)
I think I just like the idea of having a boyfriend, but I don't really LOVE him as a lover, I love him more as just a best friend. He's taking the relationship seriously, and he's my second boyfriend. (My first one wasn't really serious, he just kind of ignored me.) I guess I don't really want serious.
It seems selfish of me, but he's always asking to hang out every weekend to go get pizza or maybe hang at his house for a couple hours, but I just don't want to hang out with him. I feel bad rejecting him all the time, and I even try to find any excuse I can to get out of it. (Yeah, I know, it's bad that I feel that way.)
Also taking my parents into account, since they were surprised that I went into another relationship so quickly, when I tell them that I broke up with this guy (and he's really nice and perfect so they'll be confused on why) I just hope they don't think of me in a bad way.
Should we split up? I really want to split up, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. He's really in love with me and he's trying to make sure he does this right. (He doesn't know how I really feel.) I liked the relationship, but now the excitement's dying down. He's not boring, we have tons in common, but he's probably better off as a friend than a boyfriend, from what I think. We've been together for such a short amount of time, that I would hate to break it off so fast...
If we just become friends again, it would just be so awkward between us, I would think...
Sorry for the long post, but what should I do?

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