If that's true, why are you wasting your time making posts to strangers on the internet instead of taking care of this serious situation with your son?

I certainly hope that you immediately told the girl's parents, forbid them to see one another ever again and kept a better eye on your child. Parents today seriously need to wake up and be REAL productive rather than passive parents.

Why is your 12 yr old CHILD allowed to even have a girlfriend? Why was your son allowed to have a girl in his room? (If that's where they were) Where were YOU when your child was having sex in your house? He is a child, plain and simple therefore, he needs his Mother, not a girlfriend. He is far too young to even involved with a girl.

Wake up people and PARENT your CHILDREN like you're supose to do or you can forget being Mommy because you'll be far too busy being Grandma. tisk Make all the nasty and juvenile comments you want, it doesn't bother me one bit. Have a good day.

Paddle him on his bare behind.

young dumb and full of cumm

It feels amazing great!!!!

Haha, seriously I am 12 and I started having sex when about 2 months ago and it really does feel great. Young people are great in bed, especially in the car or taxi! Let him do it, god!

stop it because if you dont you know what will happen'diseases'pregnuit gf'and itl be all on u

Ok I am 10 and I have at 13 year old neighbor who started having sex when she was 11, now they have sex like every month! I maybe young but listen don't let them do it! IT'll turn out to be a disaster

shit let him have sex it feels great!

Shit Let Him Have Sex Im 11 and ive already have had twins but tell the girl and your son that it is so hard to take care of children at sucha young age but what the hell if he wants to do it then let him do it

WHAT? What did he say when you barged in? Why does he have a girlfriend, im 11 and i know better. This i weird getting advice from an 11 year old but i suggest you tell him not to see her again. BTW i didnt search this it came up when i was trying to find a job! but forbid him to see her!

Once kids start they don't stop. Best thing you can do is make sure he knows about the risk of STD's and chance of getting girl pregnant. Give him some condoms and tell him to be discreet about it. I would say the same for male or female.

I am 13 and I've known about sex for a good 5-6 years but it doesn't mean I go and do it. The legal age is 16 so keep it that way. Your son has a mind of his own so give him protection and warn him that he might not want to be a dad at 12! And DON'T leave him alone with a girl! Sex... at 12 NO WAY on this earth would I ever let my (in 10-12 year time future)kids do that any way!

Here is the thing, he is going to do it behind your back if you try to stop him. Just talk to him about the repercussions and make sure he understands to wear a condom. It is actually a lot more normal than you think for kids that age to have sex. Talking to him about it and letting him do what he is going to do but with the information he needs is the best way to go.

lol wow your son weird in so manyways

ask him if you can join in

I don't think "12-year-olds" are even old enough to be on the internet. They obviously can't handle just writing a decent message on a message board and have to say totally vulgar and immature things. Grow up people.

Wow I'm 12 and I have have sex all the time give him some condoms. If i was that girl I would enjoy it. I love sex I love feeling that nice soft hard penis inside me. I love to eat cum. I am like the schools hore I fuck any guy that asks when he wonts with no protection!!! My # is 585-278-0962 call me for sex on the seen

thats crazy i was whalking withmy cosin she told me that her friend at school whear having sex in the bathroomtogether after she and him had sex agine in the bathrooms of the park now she a whore whant a whore call her at 9098204211

let them fuck dont block yo son cock u cock blocker

let them fuck dont block your son cock u cock blockin hoe

just let him i do it all the time at 13 if she gets pregnant then shhe can have abortion.

advice your son not meet her again if they meet each they maybe will do that thing again this time they will unnotice

omg way to young

Well.. You should tell him what can happen 1st. Give him protection etc. But honestly I think it's kinda okay if he knows what can happen and the work it may cause for him. But do make sure that the girl isnt being pushed into it. Let them do it willingly. Sex without any will is a terrible thing. I just think that he should be able to learn what it's like. It was hard for me to wait so long before I could see what it was like... I say just let him try it and make sure he knows what can happen is all... Just really make sure he has protection, and she has pills. I'd hate to have a son thats a father at age 13.

im 12 too , a girl tho ... ask him if he wants to be a dad and loose his life because some stupid choise!

IT IS FINE TELL HIM GOOD JOB

They seem interested in learning but honestly take matters into your own hands. Dont monitor every movement but certainly be there to provide support. girls today are much more adult looking than they are when i was a kid. Its almost scary when you can stand a 11 year old next to a 19 year old and you see the exactly same body shape and physcial development. Educate about sex, introduce masturbation as an alternative to personal pleasure,fondling and groping is another ok way for youth to explore, its perfectly ok to talk to him about these things. However when she says no then you need to explain what no is. Rape is a far to common issue in todays world. and you need to explain respect and responsibility to him as well. unfortunatly you will need to talk to her parents , if she goes to her doctor , the doctor will notice things on her private area that is common to girls having sex and will inform the parents, then the parents will inform you and you want your son to see you lie and pretend that it never happened ?

hey I am 12 and having sex with my girlfriend(I use a condom she uses the"pill")
so give the kid a break!!!!!!! But give him a lecture about the benifits and downs
about having unprotected sex!!! But also buy him trojan exstacy condoms.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!

That's sick, why in the world are children even thinking about sex. This world is gonna go to shit it this keeps happening, soon it will be five year olds.

it's a heartbreaker but give them good advice hope they realize having sex so young can hurt their future as adults sex is definately an adult decision so no a 12 yr old is not an adult and should not be having sex but what should we exspect from our children in this world these days kids are so pressured every day about all things and they just want to grow up so fast remind your child that being a kid is fun and free but being an adult is hard and costly and do they think they can afford to raise children at the age of 12 with no money ask them if their life is hard what do they think their childrens life will be like with poor underage uneducated parents i just don't think kids think about the future...live for today could mean ruined forever...good luck with your kids

Imao hey i am 12 and i have a 15 year old boyfriends and we have sex but of course i am on the pill and he uses protection just sit him down and make sure he is completely ready for sex

Im 12 too, just give him a break.He is probably embarrassed enough with you catching him doing it.Give him condoms and talk to him about it but of course he will do it again.

I think you should not be harsh, he is going through puberty and both of them are curious.

I think both should go to jail and see what its like,also I think the parentsshould go to jail also for allowying this to happen,where were the parents.

i dont think the boy could fit a rubber.. so protection wouldnt work to well....

look im 12year old girl. yess kissing is okayy. but thiss a little to far. just ask him to stop. dnt tell. and if he still does atleast have imuse protectionn!

LET HIM DO WATS HE'S DOIN BECAUSE IN THE LONG RUN HE WILL NO HE MADE A MISTAKE.

I think 12 is way too young but alot of kids learn about sex at a young age I learned at like 6 years old I just asked my 15 year old brother and he said "It's a man sticking his penis in a woman's vagina" don't ask what how I knew what those are but the rest I found out on my own!

let hem have sex if he wont to

how does he even now about sex? he probley walked in on u and ur husband going at it!!!! lol

let him do it he won't stop at least give him protection I'm 11 and that's what I think about all the time hint sex

Let him cauSe he will Do It when he is grow up

hey at least you know he isnt gay

hes curious lol, (and in puberty probably) if you are completeley aposed to it stop him but dont go hardo n him and if you arnt apposed sit down and have a talk with him (and make sure he uses protection while your at it)

No no no no no no!don't pretend u'r not aware of what ur boy can do.at first u spared the rod and now the child is spoilt.don't sit there folding ur arms.give him an eye opener by educating him on every sex stages and life with a soft mind.u'll see he will have 2wait til 19-20

tell your child that that is bad tell them that love can wait they are still too young to do that they can't handle there self at this time.

im 15 ive been with my girlfrend for 5 years and im a father of two bcuz i was stupid enuf to do wat he did. either make him stop or make him use protection. 2 condoms.

Was he using protection?

im 12 and well what you need to do is talk to him and have his girlfriend there make sure you embaress him in front of his gf just belive me
he wont fuck her again

he is a dumbass

Wtf you shouldnt be so hard his hormones just kiked in :D

Let him do it!!!!

can someone help me on http://www.maybenow.com/Symptons-for-my-first-period-q23981768

did he squirt inside her?
You know, f her brains out?>

lmao wowww, that chick is a horr

He's a horny 12 yr old!! Ok, that sounds a little lax, but what I'm trying to say is that he was the one having sex with her in the first bit, and since he's old enough to make his own decisions, you can choose one of two sides; the 'Angry parent' side, or the 'Awesome parent' side. If he's going to keep having sex, which he will no matter what, give him some rubbers, and either talk or give him a article about STDs and pregnancy. Also, she should know all the risks. Then---why are you even posting this, you have to decide anyhow.

EDIT: I meant the girls not yours. typoooo

that's awful.

You need to show him what he did was wrong but at the same time be there for him. Dont tell him what he did was terrible and wrong and gross and everything. You will take away alot of his self confedience.

Sit him down and tell him the effects of sex, STD's, pregnancy etc. Tell him that you are taking away his video games, or computer or something major to him for a while. ONE thing. A big thing though. Make him understand that you understand what he did and would prefer he waited. You have to punish him without making him hate you. Its very hard to do. Be very calm talking to him and tell him numerous times in many different ways that no matter what you love him and will always be there for him. I know it must seem like this was wrong and he should be punished terribly. People make mistakes though. No matter what he is still your son and you do still love him. He might have done this to rebel or to get your attention. You never know. Make sure he knows you still love him and care about him.

right go in to your son

give him a letter..

saying all about what you think about this

and say in the letter if your relli going to do this.. then you need these

and put a pack of condoms in the letter

Because he needs you to understand him not to go mental

Good luck

xx

get over it hell do it anyway some kids are just like that

This is where good parenting should have come in years ago.

idk

you need to have an emercy sex talk with him ASAP. about what sex is ment for, ask him if he is using protection, tell him everything the good the bad and the ugly.

here is a great site for you and him

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-...

idk, ground him?

First, you should be calling the girls parents and explaining the situation.

Second, I would ban him from spending time with her. Since he's only 12 its not like he can sneak out and take the car to go see her (well he could - but then he'd just be really screwed).

Third, ground him. No going out with friends, no tv, no internet, no cell phone. He gets to go to school and come home.

Finally, talk to him about sex, the consequence, protection, pregnancy, STD's... all that "fun" stuff. If he can't understand it then he shouldn't be having sex.

Give the kid a wake up call. He gets a girl pregnant and he'll ruin his life. Idiot.

he doesnt know what a condem is??? wtf is this kid illetrate....and hes having sex with his gf they r both little babys MAMA MAMAMA I WANT MY BOTTLE MAMA!! he was sucking on ur tit less than 10 years ago WAKEUP CALL MA'AM u need to ban that boy from seeing her, and u know what u need to make him go and volunteer in teh community changing stinky poopy diapears so he knows what its like to have a kid....and then maybe hell be like wtf...i hate chaning shitty diapears and having to clean up throwup screw that im not having sex for a long time.

you've got to be freaking kidding me? 12? obviously you need to teach him the difference about wrong and right, and what will happen if his gf is pregnant by 13! dont ask us for help! suck it up and be a parent!!!! ground him, lecture him, take him to a psych!

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SLAP THE ** OUTTA HIM!

first off, you obviously werent parenting well if hes having sex at that age. next, talk to him about sex and precautions. he might not want to hear it, but if you ban him from the outside world, hes going to misbehave even more. you have to become comfortable with this. hes a sexual being. but, 12 is wayy to young, maybe the girl pressured him or he pressured her. ask questions, and become involved.

what i would do is:

not let him have a gf anymore 4 a LONG while until u think u can trust him

ground him 4 a good LONG while

and DEFINATLY tell her parents

I would homeschool him if I were you. Then you can monitor him and not worry about who he's hanging out with. You need to CONTROL him. Your the adult, not him. Don't let him control you. Tell him when he's 18 he can do what he wants but when he's under your roof, you do what you tell him. And I would take EVERYTHING away.

I've been waiting for this. GROUND him for a LONG time. If he wants something, say, "Man! HELL NO!". Permission Slips? A big, fat "NO!" on it. Make it VERY hard for him. Make it HELL. Hey, that's tough love. HE decided to have sex at 12. He's complain for HIS mistake. Not your fault his. School then home. No TV. No extra snack. No FUN. Vacation, but he will not go out.

Edit: Call the girls parents, too. If he rebels in public, be sure to embarrass him with a hitting threat at a certain volume

Edit: Oh, Air Sabu. You saw this?

just give him some condoms and pray he doesnt get a girl pregnant. you can tell him to stop but he most likely wont listen.

he is having sex and he doesn't know what protection is your going to be a grandparent really early he needs a wake up call in my school we had already learnt basic stuff when we were 10 + 11 you need to explain because school is not doing it properly

he thought it was cool so he did it, you can still trust him, just not alone, and you should proably tell heer mom and give him the talk

While I can imagine how upset you would be at this, I STRONGLY disagree with other answers here.

Just because your son is having sex does not make you a bad parent, or mean you didn't parent him well. While, at 12 years old, he really should know about condoms and all that, it doesn't make this your fault. So you should know that. I'm sick of reading questions where all people do is bash the inquisitive person.

Secondly, punishing him, while it might seem like a good idea, may be counter productive. Do you remember when you were a kid, and everytime you weren't allowed to do something you wanted to do it even more? Kids will find a way to do things. Your best bet is to give him all of the information on why he shouldn't being doing it, tell him he's not allowed to, and if you find out again he will be in trouble, but that you hope in the future he will at least be safe about it.

I would suggest calling her parents, and not leaving your son alone with her. But you should also only call them if you know how her parents are. They could handle it completely out of control. That would not be good either.

Don't yell, the second you start yelling, he will stop listening.

Good to see you can count. What puzzles me is why a 12 year old would even be thinking about sex.

Edit: It was hard to miss.