I do not love my wife anymore

7 ANSWERS

1. ZZ
   

    At times it is very difficult of both husband and wife to live together its not the lack of love. There are other factors which effect your life very and at times your love is converted into hate. 

   But when the bad days are over and you think over about all the things then you realize that there was nothing that big which produced the distance in between. Specially in love marriages the female candidate has got a very high expectation and when her expectations are not fulfilled then clashes start. 

   The the real man is the one who can explain his words to his women that these are the reasons which are not allowing me to be there where you dream me to be. You relation should always be strong. 

   You love your kid and these kids are also your women's kid as well so you need to love her as well. Yes when ever their is a fight women left for parents house but when she realize that the issue was not that big then he comes back. That is the way of life and one more thing if you want to be a real man than always keep some distance in between your personal life and your official life. 

   Do share each and every thing with your wife but to an extend. Best of luck.

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2. Guest23331855
   

     A marriage is not about "You", nor "Me" - it is about family.  Had you not had children, you might be right in looking elsewhere if that is also what she wants...however.. you now have a family!

      If you are a real man, you will pull yourself togther and try to best make amends with your wife by being open and honest, but in a kind and loving way.

      I am sick of seeing children's homes ripped apart because one of the parents feels "Its just not doing it for me and I want to be happy".   Be responsible first!  Then start thinking about a happy family...not just a happy YOU!

    

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3. Guest10185624
   

   Dear "I do not love my wife anymore"; My husband of seven years left me and our daughter - he said he did not love me anymore. Six months later, he wanted our family back as it was before he left. Please take the necessary time to communicate honestly with your wife about everything you feel. Talk to a third party, a therapist, alone and togather before ending your marriage... relationships can get boring and without good communication and most of all genuine truth, it (the relationship) can turn cold and disagreeably. You work hard at your career, right. Will, work even harder for your marriage to that wonderful woman you fell in-love with (who by the way is as frustrated as your are) and those innocent children who are watching and learning from the two of you everyday. P.S. My husband begged for years to return to our family while I worked to get myself out of the debt he left fore he planned months before he actually moved out. Everything was three months behind in payment and he did not communicate this to me. I lost that truth I once had for him and moved on. There is a RIGHT way and a WRONG way to do things. Please do the right thing for yourself, your wife and those wonderful children.

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4. Guest6228201
   

   You my friend are suffering with what is very common among men who have been married for sometime and have children. When you first met your wife you were lovers. The children came along and now you are parents. Look around you! Nature will show you that the parents will spend all their energies gathering for the young. You and your wife have also done this for many years now and the "lovers" have been put to one side. You have been pulled apart by your parental insticts and you need loving. Don't look for it anywhere else. Speak to your wife about how you once were and how you are now. Re-kindle that love. Take some time out for yourselves. You don't need no God to tell you what's wrong!

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5. Guest6228201
   

   You my friend are suffering with what is very common among men who have been married for sometime and have children. When you first met your wife you were lovers. The children came along and now you are parents. Look around you! Nature will show you that the parents will spend all their energies gathering for the young. You and your wife have also done this for many years now and the "lovers" have been put to one side. You have been pulled apart by your parental insticts and you need loving. Don't look for it anywhere else. Speak to your wife about how you once were and how you are now. Re-kindle that love. Take some time out for yourselves. You don't need no God to tell you what's wrong!

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6. Guest12736
   

   get suggestion from a nice reglious person and do pray and ask help from Allah SWT there is a salah called nemaz /salah of istikhara it is kind of suggestion by Allah SWT . pray this nemaz you will be guided INSHA ALLAH

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7. Guest12614
   

   Usually miscommunication or another woman is the cause of not liking your wife, after you have been married for a long time. You cann’t just not love someone all of sudden. Who is going to get the children, let me guess you love your children but you want them to stay with their mother. “All the fighting is very tough on the kids” do you think your divorce will be a walk in the park for your children. It takes two to tango. i'm not suggesting your wife is not at fault but you guys are both adults and it would be very helpful if you start acting accordingly. You just want a break from all this, take a vacation and go somewhere without making any harsh decisions. But since you want to enjoy your life with loving women; it clearly says "i got myself someone else, need to get rid of my current wife".

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