How to Breakup with your boyfriend part 2: if you have not read the part 1 please read that first by clicking on this link:
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such thoughtlessness is cruel and he will be reminded of the pain you inflicted on him every year.
Also, avoid making matters worse by expressing how hurt or angry you are with him. Regardless of what caused the break up, you saw something in this relationship in the first place. He has the right to his dignity and your respect.
However, if he's not responding to what you say some tears could help to soften the blow. Either he will believe you are truly devastated by the ending of the relationship or that you are an emotional wreck that he can do without.
You should also remember that it is far harder to get your personal items back after a break up, so start collecting them on the sly a few days before. Put whatever stuff he has around the house into a box and be ready to move. And if you've given him a key to your place make sure you ask for it back.
If the sight of him crying or begging for your affections has you thinking to give the relationship another chance then stop yourself. Don't promise to stay in touch, or be friends or say that perhaps you can get back together when you get your head together. To give him false hope is cruel.
A few days after the break up contact him to ask how he is doing. Or call his friends up to inquire about how she is coping. It is poor form to leave him high and dry. especially if you care about him. Just be wary of giving the impression that you still want him
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