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HELP i caught my boyfriend wearing my clothes

what would you do i came home and found my boyfriend dressed in my old school uniform ie bra ,thong , skirt,shirt,jumper, and tights while playing with himself he said it was just for fun but i dont know what do do about it he wants to dress up and go outside and have sex with me but i think ite weird what should i say or do is this normal for guys to do i am 18 and he is 20 please help
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Guest12280853
Guest12280853
3 weeks, 4 day(s) ago

YES THIS IS VERY NORMAL... What you should do, or want to do, is up to you.
I will only try to help you understand him. The fact that he wants to wear womens clothes does NOT make him gay. Let me give you some things to think about, but more importantly research so that you will understand and know the truth of this all.
(1) Go back through history and see who wore what. did men not wear wigs and wear what todays society would not consider feminine ?
(2)A lot of men create womens fashion,would we create something we did not like?
(3)MOST MALES , have tried on womens clothes at some point in their life.
but we are conditioned to me macho , masculine, whatever. so most will never admit to it and are ignorant and scared of it, and dont want no one to know ,because then we are not a man but , a fag, gay , etc, .
(4)Going back to # 1 again did women not commonly only wear dresses, skirts, lace and frilly things , say in the 50s and 60s . But look at today. if pants or for men, and dresses ect. are for women , then why are women dressed in mens clothes. ( pants ,shirts , etc. ) THINK ABOUT IT.
So what is the difference ?
(5) Womens clothes do have a better fit, and usually softer and far more comfortable than ours, thats todays difference
(6) The human brain has a male/ female side sometimes one side will be stronger than the given sex (be it man or women)so a man may have a more femine side or dominant side. and vise/verse
(7)You can research all the above, try just typing in words , such as crossdresser, transexual , etc, do not make a decision with a scared ignorant mind. but with a more knowledge ,and understanding.


Guest12280853
Guest12280853
3 weeks, 4 day(s) ago

YES THIS IS VERY NORMAL... What you should do, or want to do, is up to you.
I will only try to help you understand him. The fact that he wants to wear womens clothes does make him gay. Let me give you some things to think about, but more importantly research so that you will understand and know the truth of this all.
(1) Go back through history and see who wore what. did men not wear wigs and wear what todays society would not consider feminine ?
(2)A lot of men create womens fashion,would we create something we did not like?
(3)MOST MALES , have tried on womens clothes at some point in their life.
but we are conditioned to me macho , masculine, whatever. so most will never admit to it and are ignorant and scared of it, and dont want no one to know ,because then we are not a man but , a fag, gay , etc, .
(4)Going back to # 1 again did women not commonly only wear dresses, skirts, lace and frilly things , say in the 50s and 60s . But look at today. if pants or for men, and dresses ect. are for women , then why are women dressed in mens clothes. ( pants ,shirts , etc. ) THINK ABOUT IT.
So what is the difference ?
(5) Womens clothes do have a better fit, and usually softer and far more comfortable than ours, thats todays difference
(6) The human brain has a male/ female side sometimes one side will be stronger than the given sex (be it man or women)so a man may have a more femine side or dominant side. and vise/verse
(7)You can research all the above, try just typing in words , such as crossdresser, transexual , etc, do not make a decision with a scared ignorant mind. but with a more knowledge ,and understanding.


Guest12183993
Guest12183993
4 weeks ago

u r so stupid n shameless


Guest12040860
Guest12040860
1 month, 3 day(s) ago

Go out and Buy him a nice French maids outfit, Dress him up in it,go all out with the make up and shoes, nails hair the lot.
Then tell him to come for a drive with you and dump him off in some very public place. call all his freinds to come and laugh at him.
Total Humilation.


Guest11846919
Guest11846919
1 month, 9 day(s) ago

If you want to see if he's gay then ask him if he would ever have sex with a guy. If he says no then he's not gay.


Kaito♪
1 month, 14 day(s) ago

Your boyfriends are turning gay...or already is gay.
They use you as a excuse for puting woman's cloths on.You should seriously talk to him.Im a guy,and I should.Its not natural.


Kaito♪
1 month, 14 day(s) ago

Your boyfriends are turning gay...or already is gay.
They use you as a excuse for puting woman's cloths on.You should seriously talk to him.Im a guy,and I should.Its not natural.


Guest11753908
Guest11753908
1 month, 14 day(s) ago

I have the same problem. I actually found out last night that my boyfriend of 6 1/2 years wears womens clothing. I have never seen him do it. HIs sister actually told me becuase he was asking her what to buy. He told me it was for a Halloween Costume, and then I found out that it was really for him. I was a little freaked out, and now i dont even know if i am attracted to him anymore. I love him with all my heart, but something like that is a little weird. His mother told me that when he was a little boy he would steal her bras, underwear and langerie and wear it to bed. He is 19 now, and every once in a while certain outfits go missing of mine. He told me he had them!


Guest11522674
Guest11522674
1 month, 27 day(s) ago

it is his love that he wants to look like you


Guest11522674
Guest11522674
1 month, 27 day(s) ago

it is his love that he wants to like you


Guest11464031
Guest11464031
1 month, 29 day(s) ago

Let me first say what this doesn't mean. It doesn't mean he's gay, or that he wants a sex change, or that he's a bad person.



Is he weird? In the narrow sense that most men probably aren't into wearing women's clothes, yes. But we're all weird in one way or another. If you think somebody's normal, it's probably because you don't know them well enough.



Should you break up with him? Nobody here can tell you that. It's possible he's just experimenting, and this will all be forgotten in a few weeks. If this is very important to him, you'll need to decide whether it's something you can deal with. And if it's not, perhaps you're incompatible.



Don't feel that you have to do anything you're uncomfortable with, but don't judge him too quickly either.


Guest11380931
Guest11380931
2 months, 5 day(s) ago

he enjoys the clothes and you of course,,, think he not sure which he likes best but doesnt want to loose you


Guest5700
Guest5700
earlier

he sounds weird


Guest7479
Guest7479
earlier

Take pictures and put them on the internet.


Guest114
Guest114
earlier

I'd be flattered that he admired my taste in clothes! He obviously feels comfortable around you doing this - alot of men hide it in the closet! I would take that as a compliment as well - he trusts you. If you think it's weird don't do it. If you think it's weird because everyone tells you it is try it and see first. Never pre-judge.


Guest485
Guest485
earlier

Dont sweat it, looks like your dating a tranny.



Worse things happen at sea.


Guest7254
Guest7254
earlier

I think it's a bit harsh for people to say he's a freak, some people have unusual fantasies that's all IT IS PERFECTLY NORMAL it's just not normally talked about.



If you're not comfortable with it then tell him that. He shouldn't pressure you into doing anything you don't like. Explain to him that it makes you feel uncomfortable. He might open up to, that way you can comprimise on what you want to do.


Guest8199
Guest8199
earlier

he sounds like a freak, its not normal for guys, its normal for them to get you to dress up in the school uniform, not the other way around.


Guest9446
Guest9446
earlier

I think he may want to get a sex change and hell say to you "will u still love me if i looked like this"?


Guest9804
Guest9804
earlier

is it normal no, is it a weird fetish maybe. Depends on how open minded you are. if you dont mind it, and are willing to let him explore then why not. but, it sounds like you are not okay with it. It is a bit weird for me, but I am not you... or I would be dressed in your clothes too... i guess.. ;) Good luck!


Guest346
Guest346
earlier

he is crossdresser


Guest2530
Guest2530
earlier

Not normal.



He has a problem, get out of the relationship now!!


Guest5840
Guest5840
earlier

it sounds like he is a cross dresser. weird!


Guest1065
Guest1065
earlier

if you are not happy with it, and i wouldn't be, suggest find a new bloke


Guest1050
Guest1050
earlier

its okay dont stress about it..hes propably only experimenting wanting to make yours and his sex life a bit more intresting. but if he starts talking gay or something then i would be worried. just play along with it perhaps switch roles hahaa



=]


Guest5810
Guest5810
earlier

sketchy!!! ditch him.


Guest6003
Guest6003
earlier

run girl run.....


Guest4567
Guest4567
earlier

he sounds weird find a new guy if he carrys on and you dont like it


Guest7118
Guest7118
earlier

well you should get your own back on him by throwing all his clothes in the bin and make him go to the shops for more dressed as a girl with all your friends there and that will stop him from dressing up ever again lol


Guest1934
Guest1934
earlier

SOME MEN DO IT BUT THINK OF THEIR GIRLFREIND BUT SOME MEN DO IT WHEN THEY ARE LONLY ALL I CAN SAY IS GO WITH IT AND AT LEST HE IS NOT GOING WITH ANYONE ELS AND WHY DONT YOU PUT YOUR OLD CLOTHS ON FOR HIM AND SEE IF U GIVE HIM THE SAME FILLING AS HE GIVES HIMSLEF


Guest2738
Guest2738
earlier

Cool!


Guest3758
Guest3758
earlier

Some guys get off on wearing womens clothes - they're called transvestites. For them it's normal, transvestites aren't necessarily gay.



If you don't like it or can't handle it, you have to tell him.


Guest5450
Guest5450
earlier

if you don't want to do something say no, if you don't like what he's doing..say so...if he's too immature to respect your feelings, he doesn't deserve you


Guest2713
Guest2713
earlier

No this is not normal, he is 20 now, what the hell will he be into when he's 30 - 40 etc.



Get shot, make sure you keep your clothes though!


Guest5578
Guest5578
earlier

I'd tell him to put some weight on - he must be tiny!


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