Married for 8.5 years of marriage & together 15 years all together and both in our mid 30's. There is a serious disconnection from my husband. There has been some physical abuse over time which caused most of the disconnect and a few trust hiccups along the way.
Another issue is that I realized that I was not being who I really am because I was always making sure his ego, pride, emotions and all his other needs are being taken care of. Some were okay but at times I was being taken for granted and not being heard when I expressed my feelings of sadness and stated my needs and wants. His expectations are high for me yet he falls short.
Tags: Disconnect, fall, love, Marriage